Mo Ting once said: "Everything in the world is an encounter." Just as cold meets warmth, there is rain;Spring meets winter, and there are years;Heaven meets earth, and there is eternity;Man meets man and has life. ”
On this train of life, you will meet all kinds of people, reject those who consume you, otherwise you will suffer.
After middle age, you must live a sober life of human nature, and if these three kinds of people appear around you, please avoid them.
Unreasonable people.
People live for a lifetime, the road is long, most people have to contact many groups, experience some things, the ups and downs have to taste, among them, the people we meet are knowledgeable, these people are usually knowledgeable, easy to communicate. There are also some people who are specially here to consume us, that is, people who are messing around and unreasonable.
The best way for people to get along with each other is to take reason as the criterion, to be with reasonable people, to do what they feel comfortable, and to get along with unreasonable people, giving people a sense of depression and feeling very aggrieved.
Obeying the word "reason" is what everyone must do, and once people lose this reason, they will become arrogant and unreasonable, and run rampant.
Those who are quite unreasonable are always indiscriminate, scolding each other enough, and then imposing their so-called mistakes on others, talking nonsense, uncivilized words one after another, he will never reason with you, the right is his own, and the fault is always someone else's.
When you encounter unreasonable people, don't entangle, remember to stay away, otherwise, it is yourself who will be hurt.
Tell a fable:
There were two people who quarreled for a day, one said 3824, and the other said 3821, and they couldn't get a lawsuit to the county office.
When the county magistrate heard this, he said, "Drag the man out of 3824 and beat 20 boards!." ”
Twenty-four people were dissatisfied: "Why did he beat me when he was stupid?"”
The county magistrate replied: "Can you quarrel with people from 3821 for a day, and you still say that you are not stupid?"If you don't hit whom?”
Reasoning with unreasonable people, reasonable and unreasonable, the more unreasonable, the more unreasonable. Don't entangle yourself with such people, and don't end up putting yourself in it.
Extremely greedy people.
Goethe once said: Greed is the root of all evil, the greatest evil is discontentment, and the greatest disaster is insatiable greed. ”
The thousand afflictions of human nature are due to "greed", and the greatest evil in human nature is because of "discontentment".
Once a person has the desire to be "greedy", this evil will take root in the heart, and if you are greedy, you will lose, and the more you lose, the more greedy you are, and the vicious circle will be.
In the movie "The Godfather", it was said: "Soft-heartedness without boundaries will only allow the other party to gain an inch, and unprincipled kindness will only let the other party do whatever he wants." ”
A greedy person is easy to get an inch, you help him once, he will justifiably ask you to help him a second time, a third ......You will never be able to fill this hole.
Zengguang Xianwen" once said: "Knowing and stopping is always stopping, and there is no shame for life." ”
To deal with a greedy person, only by completely dispelling the idea of feeding him can you not be disturbed endlessly. Decisive refusal, brave pull down your face, and break the relationship, you can stay away from the person who tortures you.
The one who pulls the hind legs.
People live for a lifetime, and the relationship between people becomes more and more complicated, at this time, you must keep your eyes open and see the true face of everyone, whether they are here to repay the favor or to consume you.
Liu Yu once said:
Stay away from the people who consume you, and don't consume others. ”
Xiaoli is a motivated woman who almost destroyed a marriage in the end.
The husband not only left all the housework to her, but also ignored the children, and often complained that the food was not delicious, the house was not cleaned up, and the children stained their clothes again.
Xiaoli is busy as a dog, but he fishes for three days and dries his nets for two days. Usually with a group of fox friends and dog friends to eat and squander, not doing a good job, a few years after marriage, his body collapsed, unable to go to work to support his children and wife.
Such a man consumes her physical strength, energy, patience and future all the time. Finally, Xiaoli decided to divorce.
After the divorce, Xiaoli took her mother over to help take care of the children and went to work during the day. Life is not easy, but the state is really much better than before the divorce.
She began to get together with friends on weekends, take her children to parent-child activities, and even fell in love more than a year later.
Xiaoli said: "Fortunately, I am divorced, otherwise it is really not worth living like this for the rest of my life." ”
A person who is not responsible and unresponsible, no one treats him well;A person who is bursting with negative energy can't be saved at all, stay away from those who consume you, otherwise, there will never be happiness in this life.
How to stay away from these three types of people.
The so-called "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black", and being with a person with positive energy is the most important thing in life.
When you are with sensible people, you see the innocence of human nature;When you are with people who are content, you see the goodness of lifeWhen you are with a responsible person, you enjoy the happiness of the world.
How to stay away from these three types of people.
Don't grieve your own heart, and resolutely say "no" to the excessive demands of others.
Try to be alone as much as possible and make friends with people with good hearts.
If you don't agree with each other, you can stop your losses in time.
Stay away from those who consume you in your life and use your solitude to enhance your life's worth.
For the rest of your life, do what you like, and happiness will always be.