The primary school student's surname is "Zhu", and his father stubbornly chooses a funny name, and the teacher at school avoids calling him
Elementary school students are full of curiosity, and even the names of their classmates become the object of their research. For some students with simple and generous names, it is easy to choose a nickname;On the contrary, some students' names are too funny and are likely to become a laughing stock.
The name is a label that accompanies students throughout their lives, and it is especially important in social interactions. Many parents struggle to come up with a unique and meaningful name for their child. They may look through dictionaries, look up meanings, and some parents may even ask professionals to help them choose a name, for fear that the meaning of the name is not good, and they don't want to make a mistake at this important starting line.
Choosing a name should be the prerogative of parents, but some parents are overconfident and come up with too strange names, which can lead to an increased psychological burden on their children. For example, there was a primary school student surnamed "Zhu", because of his father's personal preferences, the teacher did not dare to call him by his first name during class.
After the post-90s generation became parents, non-mainstream elements were introduced into the field of naming, and the rosters of primary school students and the display screens of pediatric hospitals were full of trendy names that made people scratch their heads. From homophonic stalks to pseudo-compound surnames, and now there are some rare words, and first-grade teachers even have to check the dictionary before the official roll call, so as not to be embarrassed by calling the wrong name or not knowing the word.
The name of a student who is in kindergarten also worries the teacher, and the teacher does not even dare to call her by her name during class, not because the teacher does not know how to read, but because he is worried that the roll call will cause a commotion among the students in the class. Not only does this make students feel embarrassed and sad, but it can also affect the discipline of the class.
The little girl often had tears in her eyes, and the teacher felt helpless. Not because she was bullied or scolded, but because the children in the class made fun of her name. Teachers often educate students not to laugh at other people's names, but the little girl's name is enough to make people laugh, if not given a nickname.
The little girl's surname is "Zhu", and her father thinks that the names of this surname are boring, and insists on giving the child an interesting and meaningful name, "Huifei" is a good choice, and the heart is vivid and cute.
However, the parents seem to have overlooked an important issue, and that is that her surname is "Zhu". Although "Zhu Huifei" sounds interesting and unique, the homophonic stalk is too serious, even if it is not nicknamed, it is easy to associate with "Pigs Can Fly", which has become a laughing stock among classmates, and even teachers dare not call him by his name.
Parents may have taken this homonym into account when choosing the name, but the father insisted that the name was both nice and easy to remember. However, as soon as he started school, he was ridiculed by his classmates, and the teacher persuaded him to change the child's name to a simple and generous name, so as not to affect his social and mental health in the future.
Names are the calling card for students to communicate with each other, so it's important for parents to think twice about choosing a name. Each era has different naming characteristics, and the post-70s generation likes natural scenery of mountains and rivers, such as rivers and cypressesThe post-80s generation prefers overlapping words and adjectives, such as Shanshan, Nana, Zhang Wei, Li Qiang, etc.;Parents of the post-90s generation are more inclined to choose names in a variety of ways, probably because it was too common to have duplicate names when they were children.
Some parents look through ancient books and choose names that are unique and full of charm, but there are also some parents who seem to be joking when choosing names, casually saying four or five words of name, but the name contains profound meaning. One name that stood out to me was "Tangerine Peel Plum Candy", which parents claimed contained the surnames of parents, grandfather, and grandmother. However, is there really a need for such a name for students?
The name accompanies a lifetime, and when you enter the workplace, do you still have to shout tangerine peel and plum candy when the leader takes the roll call?Moreover, such a name is easy to be jokingly called by classmates, which has an impact on the mental health of students, and parents need to think twice before choosing a name.
Some names are not even dared to be mentioned by teachers in class, which not only becomes the object of ridicule by classmates, but also may affect students' enthusiasm for learning. Over time, it is likely that an aversion to schooling will develop. It can also lead to social barriers if a student feels inferior to their name. In contrast, it may be better to have a higher rate of duplicate names, so that students' lives are a little more ordinary.
Parents should not be impulsive when choosing a name, but also need to consider the feelings of the students. Choosing a name is a very important moment and a gift from parents to their children. While gifts are usually chosen based on the idea of the giver, this gift will stay with the student for a lifetime. Therefore, parents should not only consider their own preferences when choosing a name, but also think from the perspective of students.
A cute and delicate girl was named "Zhu Huifei" and was constantly ridiculed by her classmates in kindergarten. In the face of the students' ridiculed eyes and hurtful words, how helpless would the students feel at that time?
Parental happiness should not be based on student pain. Even if you go to college or work in the future, adults will not laugh at the name directly, but they may inadvertently reveal some words. Students can be very sensitive to this. Therefore, parents must understand that the name has a profound meaning to students, and it is best to choose a name that is in line with the public's aesthetics, simple and generous, and has a good meaning.
Parents are eager to create a better environment for their children to grow up and are willing to be stingy in terms of economic conditions. However, I hope that some parents will not be too creative when choosing a name, and it is more appropriate to follow the conventional way to let their children grow up healthy.
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