We have to admit that all encounters between people depend on the arrangement of God.
Sometimes, two people who walk together seem to have no intersection, but in fact, in time and space that everyone can't see in daily life, these two people who are destined to come together have long been inextricably linked.
Two people who grew up in the same environment are more likely to come together.
The other day, I attended a wedding, and the golden boy and the golden girl at the wedding were childhood best friends.
The two have been playing together in the family compound since they were children, and they met when they wore open crotch pants;I've seen each other screaming when their parents hit them. I've seen slugs in my mouth.
When I was in elementary school, I was at the same table;Junior high school is the same class;On the same campus of the university.
Two people with the same upbringing, not only did they not choose to break up because they were too familiar, but they couldn't be familiar anymore, so the two were very comfortable together.
There are too many intersections in life, the growth experience is almost the same, there are no more love tests, and two people come together easily.
Whoever fate comes together will arrange the same trajectory for whomever it wants.
Two people who grow up in the same environment are more likely to see each other as lovers in their comfort zone.
Second, it is easier for two people with the same upbringing to understand each other.
I have a few couples around me and it is easy to relate to.
Both are single-parent families, the difference is that one of them has lost his father and the other has lost his mother, so on the road of growing up, one lacks fatherly love and one lacks maternal love.
But what they have in common is that they both grew up in single-parent families and have experienced incomprehensible loneliness and pain for children from other two-parent families.
This kind of experience is destined to meet two people, and they can understand each other's inner insecurities, so it will be easier to give their sincerity in love;
At the same time, it is precisely because of this common experience that they understand the importance of cherishing a better life at the moment, so when managing love, it is easier to have a feeling of mutual love, and it is easier to tolerate and understand in love.
Two people who can produce the same emotions in an environment, or in the same situation, the heart will get closer and closer, this unique empathy, is irreplaceable by anyone.
Two people with the same life trajectory are more likely to meet.
My husband is four years older than me, and he was already in society when I was still in high school.
I never thought there would be an intersection between us. When I was young and longed to get married, I couldn't imagine what my significant other would be like.
When I met my husband, I realized that these two people with the same life trajectory may have gone through countless brushes of shoulders, but at the right time, they will meet sooner or later.
His house is not far from where I went to high school. We all share the same hobbies, like writing and shooting**.
What's even more interesting is that when you meet your parents at a wedding, you only know that the other person's parents are old friends.
So our love is going well, and our married life is going well, because the trajectory of life is the same, and we finally met at the right time, not sooner or later, and when should we meet.