Love is a lifelong pursuit. No matter what age, a woman will have very beautiful fantasies about love. However, it is not easy to harvest a good love, hard work is possible, but trust is inhumane.
Some women taste happiness in love, and some women experience pain.
In fact, what kind of man you meet and what kind of love you have are all up to you, and how others treat you depends on how you love yourself.
When people reach middle age, they still want to have a beautiful love. There are three things that must not be done, otherwise their feelings will be very passive and look **in**.
First, believe in love, but don't be impulsive for love.
I've heard that something is happening around me.
An aunt is 40 years old. She divorced her husband at an early age. She lives a good life alone, but she meets a very handsome man who develops feelings in a square dance.
The aunt thought that her life would shine in the second spring, so she gave her heart without reservation. When she learned that a man needed a sum of money to do business, she hesitated and took out all her savings for the first half of her life. I didn't expect that person to take the money and lose the news.
The aunt was stuck in a very serious emotional problem. She never believed that she would be deceived by a man when she was so old.
There is nothing wrong with believing in love, but behind love is getting along with real people. Human nature does not stand the test. Don't forget at any age. The essence of love is to love each other on the premise of loving yourself.
You can pay for love, you can break through some of the communication standards you set for love, but don't be impulsive for love anymore. When you are old, you should deal with relationship issues rationally.
Second, when people reach middle age, don't wronged themselves for money.
Young loveWhen two people are together, they can not care about too much money, it is for tenderness, and it is for the beautiful feeling of being together.
Although there are various considerations for love in adulthood, true love should bring us joy, not grievances.
If you want to be with someone you don't love for money, you'd rather live a hard life, relax your heart, and not let your life get stuck in a bad quagmire for the rest of your life.
After her sister and brother-in-law divorced, she felt that life alone was very hard. After being introduced by others, she chose a divorced second-married man and got married without much understanding.
The reason why my sister wants to get married is very simple, that is, she wants to find a rich man to share the hardships of life with herself, but she didn't expect that man to be very irritable and never gave her a good face, and her sister is always very careful with him.
Money can be earned through hard work, but the lives lost are gone.
When it comes to middle age, there's not much time to waste. Please make your time comfortable.
Please continue to believe in love and choose the one who will make you smile often.
Third, love someone again and don't disrupt the rhythm of your life.
Falling in love with someone will always unconsciously turn into a love brain. For the sake of each other, they voluntarily give up a lot of things in themselves and love regardless of everything.
When you're young, you have a lot of time to try and make mistakes. After falling in love with someone, you will find that you are not human, turn around in time.
But when people reach middle age, no matter how much Chicken Soup for the Soul tells you, it's still too late to understand a truth:
There's really not much time to try and make mistakes, and no one has much energy to re-understand a person from the other person's name and build intimacy.
But understand that no matter who you're with, the relationship you need to deal with is your own. If you love someone again, don't disrupt the rhythm of your life because of the other person.
Don't give up your job for the sake of the other person, know that for women, work is the confidence to get a good life;
Don't argue with your family about each other. Whether it's the first marriage or the second marriage, the person who made you give up your loved ones for him has never considered your feelings from your point of view, and it is not worth your efforts to maintain the relationship.