One person cheers for the graduate school entrance examination
Desire" is regarded as "love", and only truly mature people can find true love.
Many people regard "desire" as "love", and the more lacking the heart, the more materialistic and vanity people have. They expect to meet someone to satisfy their various desires, be good to themselves, spoil themselves, and fill their spiritual emptiness. But this is not called love, this is mutual aggression under the guise of love, this is the river of destruction in the world. True love only happens between two separate and complete people. Only when a person has reached maturity, fullness, and self-sufficiency can he have the ability to honor his parents, care for others, and love himself. To love someone is to be happy and happy as long as the other person is happy, happy, this kind of love will not ask for anything in return, and there is no expectation of the other person.
Love is out of reach, it is too scarce and too dimensional. Enlightenment is more important than finding true love, don't think of lust as love.
True love only happens between two separate and complete people. Only when a person has reached maturity, fullness, and self-sufficiency. Only then can they have the ability to honor their parents and care for others, so that they can love themselves, and love is overflowing, and then they can really be good to others, because they are no longer in need, so they are with anyone, and they have no tendency to take, but will give to others.
Love is the most scarce thing in the world, and it is also the highest latitude thing, but it is precisely because it is so scarce and too high in dimension that everyone is singing praise, but very few people can really have it. People are always singing about the unattainable, after all, if everyone could get it, it would be too ordinary.