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This article is an analysis of the plot of the TV series "Xiaoman Life", each issue involves different characters and plots, if you like it, please pay attention to it in the upper right corner
Yesterday I saw such a sentence on the Internet:The five languages of love are:"Words of Affirmation", "Thoughtful Moments", "Gift-giving", "Acts of Service" and "Physical Contact".In my mind, I immediately thought of the TV series "Xiaoman Life" that I was chasing recently.
Back then, I relied on sincerity to take down my daughter-in-law, and if people like to have a lot of eyes, they won't look down on me at all. I'm going from top to bottom, inside and out, and that's all that's left of sincerity. ”
Ye Yifan felt that he had moved He Jiaxu with sincerity, but in fact, it was not only that, Ye Yifan's kindness to He Jiaxu hid his love5 languages.
Meticulous moments
Ye Yifan thought about it for a long time, but decided to sell the house he lives in now and change to a school district house.
In order to make up enough for the down payment of the house, Ye Yifan even used his father Ye Ping'an's pension. Ye's father is shrewd and picky, Ye Yifan is worried that the night will be long and dreamy, so as not to regret it halfway, he originally had to wait until next week to sign the contract, Ye Yifan found Ding Wenbo the next day and hoped to sign the contract as soon as possible.
Ye Yifan learned from Ding Wenbo's mouth that the latest enrollment of Luojia Business School, the company recommended He Jiaxu to participate in this training, what about the tuition fee?Half of the company's responsibility is 300,000, and the other half needs He Jiaxu to bear it himself, which is also 300,000.
He Jiaxu's training quota was won by Mr. Wu and the head office, after all, the company cultivates its own talents, but the condition is that her next labor contract is at least six years.
This is the coveted treatment of the whole company, and getting this place is equivalent to a promotion and salary increase, and the future is promising. He Jiaxu's former master Lu Jing even fought for this place for 2 years, and now he actually gave it to He Jiaxu, Lu Jing was very angry about this, thinking that He Jiaxu was now riding on his neck.
The opportunity is so rare, of course He Jiaxu wants to participate in this training very much, but he is worried because of money, after all, the family is preparing to change houses at this time, and it is the time when money is urgently needed.
If you don't buy a house, use the money on yourself, He Jiaru feels that he is doing thisUnkindness and injusticeShe really couldn't be at easeFor their own futureGoSacrificeKidsfuture"Once you are engaged in creative work, you may not be able to produce good works. I think God is afraid of wasting my talent, so I don't want to go to this business school. He Jiaxu found a reason to convince himself.
After Ye Yifan learned about this, he still felt a little unworthy for his daughter-in-law. In his heart,Children and the house are important, and so is the future of the wifeHe Jiaru also comforted her husband and said that she had rejected the matter, after all, the two had to have a second child.
A penny is difficult for a hero, and Ye Yifan has no choice but to borrow money from his friend Chen Li. Before he could speak, Chen Li's wife Hou Yuanyuan called ** and said that he wanted to enroll his daughter in a cram Xi class, and also deliberately said that he was a little tight on money recently, in fact, he didn't want to lend money to Ye Yifan.
After that, Ye Yifan came to Ding Wenbo and wanted him to help reduce the house price a little, he really didn't want He Jiaru to lose such a good opportunity, and then asked Ding Wenbo to tell the owner to give him a little time.
Ye Yifan really couldn't think of how to make money, and even planned to buy lottery tickets.
In the end, Ye Yifan gave up signing the contract at a critical moment. He cut first and then played it, and handed it over for his wife300,000 tuition. Soon after, He received an acceptance letter from the business school.
Affirmative words
He Jiaxu was called on stage by the teacher to speak when he went to the training class, He Jiaru's speech was humorous and interesting, which attracted Song Xiao in the audience, and Song Xiao also quietly photographed He Jiaxu's **.
After Song Xiao found an opportunity to talk to He Jiaxu, seeing He Jiaxu drunk or insisting on sending her back, along the way, Song Xiao introduced his own situation, currently divorced and has a fourteen-year-old daughter, He Jiaxu felt that his conditions were particularly suitable for his friend Tian Tian, so he quickly introduced him to Song Xiao.
Tian Tian asked He Jiaru what type of girl Song Xiao likes, He Jiaru said: "Just a tall figure like you, with a big grin, no heart", Ye Yifan, who was on the side, heard He Jiaru say this, and quickly reacted, "No, daughter-in-law." Tall, grinning, and don't have any heart, you won't find yourself a home, will you?”
In fact, from this detail, you can see Ye Yifan's affirmation of He JiaruWhen a person trusts another person, how much is the one who is trusted, and how much is encouraged.
Giving gifts
Ye Yifan is an affordable man who is suitable for being a husband.
When it became clear that he was ready to change houses, Ye Yifan was like an iron rooster, with food, clothing, housing and transportation, but wherever he spent money, he was careful to plan everywhere.
Even so, he never treated He Jiaru badly.
I will buy delicious food for He Jiaru and give He Jiaru gifts...
And the gift is a thing, after a long time, it is not only a gift, it contains the affection of the person giving the gift and the time of the recipient.
Actions of service
Regarding Ye Yifan's thoughtfulness towards He Jiaxu, there is a detail in the TV series:He Jiaxu was going on a business trip early the next morning, and he didn't go to bed until late that night, Ye Yifan made breakfast early the next morning, and then helped He Jiaxu set the alarm clock in case she was late, and finally didn't forget to send a message to remind He Jiaxu when it was time.
Dale Carnegie mentioned in The Weakness of Human Nature:Actions are generated by our basic desires, Ye Yifan's love for He Jiaxu is implemented in small things, and He Jiaxu is really important to him.
Physical contact
Love is what you want to work witheach otherThe emotional impulse of direct proximity, oneness.
Once, He Jiaxu had been filming exterior scenes, leaving Ye Yifan alone in the empty room, and later "Nesting" was completed, Ye Yifan went to the airport to pick up He Jiaxu and go home, Ye Yifan couldn't wait to drive the car to the grove, and took advantage of He Jiaxu's safety period to do what he wanted to do.
With their lips printed and their arms hugged, the two of them truly integrated into each other's lives.
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