Looking back on the marriage road of the talented girl Shi Lanya, it can be said that it was a very bumpy experience.
Although the plot of "a beautiful woman falling in love with an ugly man" is quite common in the entertainment industry, it is still difficult for everyone to understand why she is desperate to marry Liu Bin.
They really couldn't go on, and announced their divorce less than a year later.
Now 23 years have passed, and we have been married three times and divorced three times. It's a pity that the more one marries, the happier he becomes, while the other gets more and more ruined.
In 1997, Slangya was invited to an industry gathering.
Not long after she sat down, she noticed that a man with a receding hairline on the other side but a very round face kept staring at her.
I still felt a little familiar in my heart just now, so I came over to greet her.
Do you remember me?When we were on the crew of "The Siege", we met before. I'm Liu Bin.
Shi Lanya remembered that this old friend she met when she was filming "The Siege" in Shanghai, and they had dinner together at that time.
I haven't seen him for ten years, Liu Bin seems more mature and steady, and his demeanor reveals comfort and calmness.
She was even pleasantly surprised to remember the lines and details of her performance.
After an in-depth conversation, Shi Lanya learned that Liu Bin had always been single, so she hesitated whether to go on a blind date. In the end, they were left with each other's ***
Perhaps because of love at first sight, Liu Bin has launched a crazy pursuit of her since then.
Whenever Shi Lanya went out to film, he would personally see him off and pick him up.
Liu Bin would wait for her at the airport, sometimes for five or six hours, but never complained.
Gradually, Shi Lanya was also moved by Liu Bin's attentiveness and thoughtfulness, although it was completely different from his appearance, it was exactly what she needed.
In 1998, Shi Lanya was 27 years old and Liu Bin was 37 years old, and they registered their marriage in Beijing.
When my friends heard the news, they were all shocked.
Due to the huge difference between their family backgrounds and achievements, they are really not a good fit together.
However, Shi Lanya envies Liu Bin's enthusiasm for life, which is exactly what she lacks in her ex-husband Weizi.
However, the eventual breakdown of their marriage is closely related to their incompatible values.
Liu Bin urged Shi Lanya to have a child as soon as possible, so that they faced new pressure soon after they got married.
As a father, he rightly desires to pass on the legacy to future generations.
She plans to focus on her work first and wait until she is 30 before thinking about having children.
Since the two are 10 years apart in age and are at different stages of life, it is difficult to agree.
Day after day, Liu Bin and his mother put pressure on Shi Lanya, insisting that she have children as soon as possible.
Shi Lanya felt very helpless, she didn't like Liu's mother's typical northern mother-in-law style, which made her even more disgusted.
The difference in living Xi between the north and the south is also manifested in other aspects, such as Shi Lanya's preference for literature and art, and the liveliness of his home, while Liu Bin prefers a simple and quiet atmosphere.
The accumulated disharmony caused Shi Lanya to lose faith in this marriage.
She envies her best friend for being free to work and play, while her life is tied down by her family.
She made the decision to divorce in 1999.
Liu Bin kept asking for reconciliation, but Shi Lanya could no longer bear the heavy constraints, and eventually they parted ways peacefully.
What happened between Shi Lanya and her ex-husband Wei Zi?
In 1995, Shi Lanya graduated from ** Drama Academy with honors and was assigned to work at the Beijing People's Art Theater.
This temple is regarded as the highest honor in the domestic theater world, and only those whose acting skills and potential are indisputable can be allowed to enter.
All along, Slanya could only play some inconspicuous supporting roles in dramas, which caused her to feel very frustrated.
When she is anxious about her career prospects, she meets a senior brother named Weizi.
Weizi, who is 15 years older than her, has long been the pillar of human art, and her skills and appearance are top-notch.
They soon fall into a passionate love, and Weizi even considers quitting her job, going solo to pursue her own career, and proposing to Shi Lanya.
Shi Lanya excitedly said that as long as she could be with him, she didn't want anything.
Two years later, Weizi found that Shi Lanya's personality was difficult to cater to, and no matter what little things were to be more serious, he felt unbearable, but the good times did not last long.
Eventually, their relationship ended after five years.
Years later, Weizi recalled: "She was always serious and very serious about everything, which made her too tired. ”
Regarding Shi Lanya, she gradually grew up after this relationship, her acting path became more open, and she re-met a new love after divorcing Liu Bin.
After two emotional changes, Shi Lanya stepped into the palace of marriage again in 2000.
The newlywed husband is an IT elite who has returned from studying in the UK and works as an executive in an Internet company.
He is handsome and has a successful career, and their relationship has been blessed by friends and family.
A year later, Shi Lanya gave birth to her son, Xiao Han, and since then she has devoted herself to family life.
She plans to quit the film and television industry and devote herself to being a housewife so that she can have more time for her children.
There are unpredictable circumstances in the sky, and nothing is absolute.
It was at that time that the husband was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer, casting a shadow over the happy family.
In order not to burden Shi Lanya and the children, the other party automatically filed for divorce.
Shi Lanya begs him to accept **, but the other party realizes that his life is short, and he does not want to be a burden to her and the child.
Eventually, she was left to raise her young son on her own.
Shi Lanya lost faith in her relationship, mainly because of the failure of her second marriage.
She vowed not to marry again for the rest of her life, and devoted her life to her son Xiaohan.
Her friends advised her to find a new partner, but she adamantly refused. She no longer trusts any man and is concerned that remarriage will have a negative impact on her children.
Shi Lanya chose to be widowed and decided to spend the rest of her life with her son, a decision she made when she was not yet 40 years old.
Liu Bin got married twice on the other side, but neither of them went as smoothly as he expected.
In 2001, 38-year-old Liu Bin met a big beauty - 18-year-old many people at the filming site of the TV series "Spring Flowers Will Bloom".
She was a student of Nanjing University of the Arts, and was recognized as the school flower of the campus at that time because of her charming oriental face, graceful figure and moving voice.
Liu Bin was even more surprised that many people had also won the crown of Miss Nanjing.
They quickly fell in love, but many parents strongly opposed the relationship, which was 20 years apart.
They are worried that their daughter will be hurt, because the mature and steady Liu Bin is too far from many people with lively and cheerful personalities.
However, Liu Bin poured his blood into proposing to many ladies, and in the end, many people chose to follow his sincere heart.
They registered their marriage in Beijing in 2003 and welcomed many sons a year later.
However, in the increasingly dull trivialities of life, the sweetness of love gradually disappears.
Because of his impatient, irritable and unrestrained personality, Liu Bin often has conflicts with many people.
The two have difficulty reaching a consensus on many ideas, which is also due to the 20-year generation gap.
In 2005, due to the failure of two marriages, many people began to think about their own problems, and Liu Bin was no exception.
People who have a lot in common with Slanya are undoubtedly too young and too difficult to control.
Maybe next time he needs to find a woman who is more in line with his life experience and ideals, so that it is possible to be happy.
When he faced the reality, he still decided to marry Wang Lijun, who was 20 years younger than him.
Wang Lijun and Ma Rong used to be close friends and had a deep affection for each other.
Liu Bin initially doted on his little wife Wang Lijun and regarded her as the pearl of his palm.
After Liu Bin gave birth to a son and a daughter, he longed to be a good husband and father even more.
In order to rebuild the family, Liu Bin began to be busy with work, hoping to accumulate wealth as soon as possible to ensure that his wife and children would have a worry-free life in the future.
In 2015, 54-year-old Liu Bin unexpectedly found evidence of Wang Lijun's cheating when he was applying for his daughter's household registration in the United States, which is really unbelievable.
Wang Lijun took advantage of Liu Bin's outing, teamed up with her family to empty the house of the two, and deliberately hurt herself to blame Liu Bin, causing the two to quarrel.
In desperation, Liu Bin had no choice but to sue this scheming woman in court.
Liu Bin finally got custody of his two children, which was the final result of the divorce between the two parties.
Liu Bin, 61 years old, has lost interest in remarrying with a growing burden.
What about Slanya?But unexpectedly obtained a lifetime of happiness.
In 2003, 41-year-old Shi Lanya went to a deserted mountain village in Ningxia to shoot the costume drama "Jiangshan".
The actors live in simple wooden huts, and the crew is in difficult conditions, with the sun blazing during the day and mosquitoes and flies bitten at night, making it difficult to sleep.
In this atmosphere, Shi Lanya got acquainted with veteran actor Li Youbin.
Mr. Lee, 54, has been married for many years and has a broken relationship with his designer wife. With their son in college, their marriage has fallen into a state of existence in name.
Shi Lanya and Li Youbin have more roles in the play, often act together, and gradually establish a deep friendship.
Li Youbin often prepares snacks and fruits carefully and thoughtfully to replenish Shi Lanya's physical strength.
After the two communicated with each other, they also had an emotional connection, but considering Li Youbin's special status, Shi Lanya behaved more conservatively.
During the filming, Li Youbin invited Shi Lanya to his home as a guest, and the relationship between the two was very close.
She insisted on maintaining an ordinary friend relationship with Li Youbin, because she was independent and adhered to her own life principles. Even if she admires Li Youbin, she will not develop a relationship when he already has a family.
Li Youbin officially divorced his wife in 2006.
Soon after, he professes his love to Slanya and asks to spend the rest of his life with her.
After much deliberation, Shi Lanya decided to date a man who was 13 years older than her, and she was already 48 years old.
They got married in 2008.
After her marriage, Shi Lanya accompanied her husband wholeheartedly.
She gave Li Youbin encouragement, let him star in dramas such as "Bright Sword", and provided professional advice to help his career take off quickly and become famous.
The two still love each other as much as their first love in real life and raise each other's children together.
After 14 years of time, Li Shi and his wife still love each other affectionately, and often participate in public events or performances together, which can be described as a model of happiness.
The 61-year-old is still active on stage, although he has to take on all the plays he can to support his three minor children with his first three wives.
His acting career has gone downhill, his reputation is not as good as before, and he can receive very few plays.
In order to make a living and support his family, Liu Bin had to constantly travel around, occasionally taking on one or two scenes temporarily.
Shi Lanya has been married three times, but her current life is happy.
Not only does he have a perfect family, but he can also stay active in the film and television industry, acting in drama shows and performing on the same stage with his husband's partner, which is enviable.
It seems that Shi Lanya's decisive departure from Liu Bin seems to be a correct choice.
No one can be sure about emotional matters, so we can only say that everything will go naturally.