When he was young, Uncle Chen was a very short-tempered person, just a few days after getting married, he and his wife Dong Lanlan fought for trivial matters for three days, at first the wife felt that maybe her husband was in a bad mood and chose to forbear, but it didn't take long for the wife to find that domestic violence had become a common occurrence for the other party, which made her disheartened and wanted to die, so she resolutely filed for divorce.
23 years have passed, and on this day, Uncle Chen called the program team and expressed his demands, hoping to remarry his ex-wife and rebuild the old friendship.
Uncle Chen. Uncle Chen expressed his longing for his ex-wife, and also regretted what he had done in the past, hoping that his ex-wife could forgive him.
Uncle Chen looks like he has a sideways face, and he didn't get mad when he was young. The two have been divorced for 23 years, why are they suddenly remarrying their ex-wives now?
Faced with the mediator's questioning, Uncle Chen told the truth, it turned out that Uncle Chen was paralyzed by a stroke and couldn't even take care of himself.
Mediator. After thinking about it again, he decided to find his ex-wife Dong Lanlan to remarry, hoping that the other party would see the relationship between the two in the past, forgive his mistakes, return to him, and take care of him.
In the face of Brother Chen's justified and strange request, the mediator said mercilessly: You have dissolved your marriage for 23 years, and she has no obligation to take care of you!
Brother Chen said that there is no obligation in legal theory, but for so many years, I have a wife in my heart, and I miss each other every day, and it is difficult to sleep and eat. Knowing that his wife would not forgive him, he asked a mediator to help.
Uncle Chen immediately admitted his mistake, he was young and ignorant in the past, which caused psychological damage to his wife and chilled the other party's heart, he felt very guilty, and hoped that his ex-wife would come back as soon as possible regardless of his previous suspicions, for the sake of his stroke and paralysis.
Uncle Chen admitted frankly that due to physical reasons, he can't take care of himself now, and he can't eat a mouthful of food. Listening to the uncle, he is also very miserable, but he beat his wife at the beginning, and now he remembers the good of the other party when he encounters difficulties, is it really because he misses his ex-wife?Not necessarily.
In order to save his wife Dong Lanlan, Uncle Chen also fought hard, he promised that if his ex-wife was willing to come back, he would give the other party generous compensation, and everything would be up to her.
Under Uncle Chen's repeated pleas, the mediator called his ex-wife, but the other party's ** was never able to get through.
Subsequently, the mediator contacted Uncle Chen's son and told Uncle Chen of his wishes.
However, Xiao Chen's next words shocked the people present, it turned out that Uncle Chen was to blame for the situation where no one cares about him now. After Uncle Chen suffered a stroke, he immediately asked his son to take care of himself day and night, and also said that if his son did not come to take care of him, he would sue his son. Because his son needs to work to earn money to support the family, he really can't find time to be with his father all the time.
In order to share the pressure on her son, his ex-wife offered to take care of Brother Chen, and let Brother Chen live in his own house, while he lived in a small attic on the second floor to take care of Uncle Chen's daily life.
However, Uncle Chen didn't know how to be grateful, and it didn't take long for Uncle Chen's unreasonable temper to get out of the way, and often because of a little thing, he abused and beat his ex-wife, and such days passed for ten years, and her heart that had been suppressed never had a chance to breathe, like a soft cloth, so tired!
Finally, on this day, a fierce quarrel broke out between the two, and in anger, the ex-wife had no choice but to leave for the second time.
The righteous mediator couldn't listen to it anymore, and said righteously that at the level of legal significance, the ex-wife had no obligation to take care of Uncle Chen, but the other party still took care of him for ten years, and the ex-wife was able to do this.
Next, the mediator didn't care about Uncle Chen's face, and directly pointed out that people can't be inconsistent with their words and deeds, and they can't do one thing on the surface and one thing behind the other. keeps saying that he loves his ex-wife deeply, but in action, he is doing things that hurt each other and are not grateful.
The mediator and his party came to the attic where his ex-wife took care of Uncle Chen, and the scene in front of them was simply shocking, in addition to being dark and messy, the attic was also very low and unventilated, not to mention an adult, even if a child entered the attic, it was difficult to straighten up.
It is hard to imagine that his ex-wife will take care of the paralyzed Uncle Chen in the case of divorce in such an environment, and he will stay for ten years, but Uncle Chen is still ungrateful and beats and scolds his ex-wife at every turn, it is estimated that few people in this world can bear it.
Facing the mediator's questioning, Uncle Chen lowered his head, saying that he also regretted not being at the beginning, and hoped that his ex-wife would be generous, remarry him regardless of his previous suspicions, and take care of the rest of his life. If it sounds good, I don't know if regret is a true expression.
In front of the camera, Uncle Chen swore that as long as his ex-wife promised to come back to take care of him, all the pensions would be handed over to the other party, even if his son didn't recognize him, it didn't matter.
Uncle Chen solemnly said that although he often beats and scolds his ex-wife, he still loves each other very much in his heart, and hopes that his ex-wife can take care of himself for the sake of his stroke paralysis.
The mediator really couldn't listen to it, and persuaded Uncle Chen, it is reasonable and legal, and your ex-wife has no obligation to take care of you anymore, and your ex-wife has endured humiliation and taken care of you for ten years, completely out of consideration for her son, and maybe some sympathy for you.
However, it is impossible and unrealistic to let your ex-wife return to such a poor attic to take care of you, and it is a bit of a fool's dream.
The mediator felt that Uncle Chen was whimsical, and then he beat his wife when he was young, and now he has a stroke and is paralyzed and wants the other party to serve, the key is that Uncle Chen is still a domestic violence maniac, who would want to put it aside?Who can guarantee that he will not violently attack his ex-wife again in the future.
Awesome mediator.
In the face of the mediator's severe accusations, Uncle Chen did not say a word. If you knew today, why bother in the first place?Young couples and old companions, since they are destined to come together, they must treat each other sincerely and kindly, and there is someone around them when they are old, everyone says yes?
At this time, the mediator's face was filled with visible indignation, and they suggested that Xiao Chen on the side send Uncle Chen directly to the nursing home, not let him get close to his ex-wife again, and protect his ex-wife.
Xiao Chen (man in red).
Looking at the gray Uncle Chen, Xiao Chen showed no mercy, and immediately said that he would immediately go to find a suitable nursing home for Uncle Chen, and would listen to the mediator's proposal and find two nursing homes for his father to choose one he liked.
I have to say that the mediator did a beautiful job in this matter, relieved his anger, and did justice.
There are many women who have been abused by domestic violence, fortunately, the husband is not too scumbag, and he can escape from the fire pit immediately after filing for divorce.
But some men who are good at disguise, look like a good person in front of outsiders, but beat his wife when he comes home, in front of people, he never goes crazy, but softly shows people, when his wife asks for a divorce, he will not agree, and let out cruel words: no one should think about it, and never leave. The world is very indifferent, relatives and neighbors adhere to the false concept of "persuasion and not persuasion", and they all advise women to live a good life, even if one or two have compassion for women, it is only a symbolic sigh to show sympathy. Does anyone care if you're suffering or tired from being in the fire pit?
The mediator is good, save Dong Lanlan from the fire, and give a big thumbs up to the righteous mediator!