Social etiquette is a crucial part of interpersonal relationships; Many people go out to eat with the leader, and when the leader mentions paying the bill, he will make himself embarrassed and entangled, whether to take the initiative to pay or wait for the leader to pay? If you take the initiative to pay, with the consumption level of your own small staff, this will undoubtedly make the next life difficult; If you don't take the initiative to pay, you may damage your image in the hearts of leaders.
Smart people in the workplace will respond flexibly at this moment, which not only maintains our image, but also offends the leader; At the end of the meal, the leader said, "Ask the waiter to pay the bill", and the stupid person will rush to pay, and the smart will do it!
01.Stay calm and calm
In fact, most leaders are ready to pay when they go out to dinner with their subordinates;
It's just that some people will seem very cramped when facing the leader. Especially when I heard the leader shouting to pay, the cramped and uneasy on my face almost told the leader loudly. And smart people will deliberately keep themselves calm at this moment, because they know that no matter how tangled and nervous their hearts are, the micro-expressions at this moment are out of place. Calmness will make you appear more decent and mature, and it can also make a good impression on the leader.
02.Express gratitudeIn fact, leaders invite their subordinates to dinner, they don't care how much money they spend, they are basically financially free, so we should provide emotional value.
When the leader mentions the checkout, the smart person will respond generously in a grateful tone, telling the leader to thank him for his hospitality, having a good time today, eating well, and so on. By expressing it positively in this way, it not only shows the gratitude to the leader, but also avoids the embarrassment of grabbing credit.
03.The attitude should be more relaxedAfter expressing gratitude to the leader, take the initiative to call the waiter to settle the bill, and talk to the waiter in a calm and calm manner, without being too deliberate or casual.
Being too deliberate will make people see your embarrassment, and if you don't take it too casually, just treat this dinner with a normal heart.
Smart should know that the dinner is actually the leader's bureau, and if you take the initiative to pay for the leader's bureau, you are actually stealing the limelight from the leader. Moderate humility is also a strategy for maintaining relationships; At the end of the meal, in the face of the problem of checkout, we are keenly aware of the changes in the occasion and atmosphere, and if the leader has the intention of checkout, we will take advantage of the trend and respond flexibly, so as not to embarrass the scene. Many people feel that the twists and turns in the workplace are very troublesome, and it does take a lot of thought to maintain a good relationship; But the effort will definitely pay off, not only to maintain your image, but also to gain trust and support in the team.