In order to win at the starting line, many parents will be more radical and instill too much knowledge in their children too early. In fact, children have their own culturally sensitive periods, and 6-9 year old children will have a strong need to think about the mysteries of things.
If you want to protect your child's interest in culture, parents should not do these things:
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1. Inculcate knowledge too early
Before the arrival of the child's culturally sensitive period, the child is forcibly required to learn Xi cultural knowledge in advance, such as forcing 3 or 4-year-old children to memorize a large number of English words, coercing and inducing children to read and write a large number of words.
The higher the English level, the greater the child's chance of entering a good primary school. So, I joined the army of Xi English and forced my children to memorize words every day. But in fact, for young children, "Xi" is against nature, and will only make children go in the opposite direction. "Learning Xi" is a good way to stimulate children's interest in learning Xi.
2. Useless is useful
Utilitarian restrictions on children's interest in culture, such as calligraphy, chess, ball games, etc., but parents believe that calligraphy is not useful for their children's education, thus suppressing these interests. But in the Internet era, compared to the knowledge content that can be known by a search, children's thoughts and artistic appreciation are irreplaceable by machines, and uselessness is the most useful thing in the future!
3. Copy-style rigid teaching
Some parents and kindergarten teachers copy the 100-year-old educational philosophy and methods of the West, limiting their children's exploration of the world. Stipulate which cultural ranges can be used to make children**, and which cultural knowledge cannot be allowed to children**. For example, when a child is interested in human bones and wants to ** the structure of the human body, but is stopped by parents and teachers.
This kind of behavior by adults will destroy the child's culturally sensitive period, and the child will be afraid and rejected by cultural knowledge, and no longer show a strong interest in culture from within life, which is the most regrettable thing.