The head teacher bluntly said that even if you wear the same school uniform, you can see the gap in "family background", which is too realistic
In the same school, students wear the same uniform every day and present a neat and consistent image during class, but after school, they show a completely different life trajectory.
The school requires students to dress consistently, not only to maintain a neat and consistent appearance, but also to prevent students from falling into a whirlpool of comparisons.
However, despite wearing the same uniform, the homeroom teacher has a keen eye and can easily see the differences between the students. This difference is not simply masked by a piece of clothing.
The head teacher said frankly: Even if you wear the same school uniform, it is difficult to cover up the gap in "family background", which is an extremely real problem.
01: Attitudes towards affairs vary.
Some students are overly quiet at school and always think cautiously when faced with tasks assigned by teachers. Before they start doing things, they are always full of considerations and concerns, and appear overly sensitive and timid.
For students from modest backgrounds, they often lack momentum when dealing with affairs, and are more concerned about the possibility of failure. When it comes to getting things done, they tend to be over-invested and slow.
Their basic attitude towards affairs is the pursuit of stability.
And children from well-off families are more willing to give it a go when dealing with affairs, and do not hesitate to show decisive action. They are undistracted, bold and practical, and clean in their dealings. Their basic attitude towards things is to get things done quickly and then strive for perfection;If you make a big mistake, you will make drastic corrections, and if you make a small mistake, you will correct it calmly.
In school, children from well-off families often get along well with their classmates, and they are more likely to laugh and laugh than children from ordinary families. Since they have never experienced poverty, they are less concerned about small gains and losses.
Setbacks are inevitable on the road to growth, and some people say that failure is the cradle of success.
Everyone shows different resilience in the face of setbacks, and the strength of this ability directly affects the trajectory of future growth. The more resilient you are, the more likely you are to rise back and move forward in the face of adversity.
It is worth noting, however, that although failure is considered the starting point for success, this conclusion also has preconditions. If the preconditions change, the results can also change radically.
For children from ordinary families, some failures may mean real failures, and it is difficult for them to get the opportunity and capital to do it again. As a result, these children are more likely to fall into low self-esteem and doubt their abilities in the face of setbacks and failures.
In contrast, for children from well-off families, failure can indeed be the mother of success.
No matter what failures come along, parents are able to create new opportunities for their children. By eliminating a wrong path, the child's space to choose again is opened up, and the probability of success increases.
In addition, it is easier for these children to move on from setbacks and gradually become confident. And this kind of support and opportunities are not available to parents in ordinary families.
At the beginning of life, we cannot choose our origins. Children growing up in different family environments are destined to show a variety of reactions when faced with similar problems.
People who feel terrible about reality are often because it is difficult to face up to their ordinariness and ordinariness.
Only those who can face the reality calmly and face the tall buildings without fear can get rid of the worldly shackles on their bodies, find their place in the ordinary, and move towards their own life path more firmly.
No matter how bad a person's family environment is, it can only determine the beginning of life at most, but it can never determine the end of life.
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