"Brothers during the day and husband and wife at night", college students are too spicy to chat on a blind date, and they are single by strength
As the saying goes: "The cave room spends candle nights, and the gold list is inscribed." However, applying this phrase to modern times, the order seems to need to be adjusted accordingly. For modern college students, the first thing to do is to get excellent results in the college entrance examination, then find their dream job through unremitting efforts during college, and finally consider starting a family.
Are modern college students not interested in starting a family?That's exactly what happened. Both men and women, college students face tremendous stress in life. If you don't have a partner, you may be able to live a chic and comfortable life, but once you have a partner, the burden of life becomes heavy and you have to face the pressure of making a living. Therefore, even after graduation, many college students are not in a hurry to enter the palace of marriage.
Parents, however, are anxious. They asked around which families had single young people of appropriate age, and as long as they had similar jobs, they were eager to introduce their children to a partner, for fear that someone else would take the lead if they delayed a little.
Although in middle school, parents keep saying that they will give their children more freedom in college, but in reality this claim is not very credible. College students are finding that even as distance increases, only the way they communicate with their parents has changed, and their expectations of themselves remain the same. Whether it is constantly asking to study hard in **, or facing the words and teachings of parents every time they go home, some college students simply reduce the number of times they go home. Not only academically, but even if they are in love, parents still put on a posture of blocking with red lights. They believe that college is a critical time for learning and cannot be distracted from falling in love.
However, the attitude of parents changed very quickly. At the last moment, he strictly blocked the children's love affairs, and when they graduated, he began to urge them to get married quickly. However, marriage partners are not assigned by the state, but need to be found in the midst of busy work. In the past, when I was in school, I didn't let me fall in love when I had a lot of time;And after graduation, I am tightly oppressed by work every day, and I still have time to fall in love
Therefore, even if you go on a blind date under the introduction of your family, the success rate is not very optimistic. As you can see from the chat logs, some of the conversations appear very awkward and full of negative energy. If this kind of communication is seen by parents, I am afraid it will cause a family turmoil.
Not only female classmates, but also many male classmates only focus on their studies when they go to school, and they don't know anything about love. After such a boy goes on a blind date, it is easy to show two extremes, one is too direct, and the other is too flamboyant.
Obviously, the male classmate described below falls into the second case. "It's just that you passed the verification of your friend and not your girlfriend", so the end of saying the local love story can be imagined, and the first impression is completely ruined. You must know that sincerity is the magic weapon to win, be rational, and say less earthy love words next time.
You're all right", greasy young men are not an isolated case, and some boys' oil is not inexperienced, but overconfident. I implore these "ordinary men" to restrain a little, this way of chatting will only exacerbate the disgust of the girls.
originally thought that their children would become the pride of parents when they were admitted to college, but they didn't expect that some parents would dislike college and delay their children's marriage. As a result, some children were arranged on blind dates before they graduated. What's even more excessive is that without the knowledge of the female student, she was actually promised an engagement, as if she had picked it up from a trash can.
If you don't want it now, you will want it later", some of the boys took this domineering style as humor, but the female students said that they could not take it. Students need to pay attention when going on a blind date that the girl opposite you has received higher education and is not the stupid white sweet in the TV series.
Although the ultimate goal of education is to achieve practical benefits, some people also make blind dates too utilitarian. "I heard that you are studying English, can you help me translate a document", such a request is really infuriating, don't you consider paying for it?Translating a document can be expensive.
Some boys, despite their mediocre conditions, are extremely demanding of girls and are happy to dictate their outfits. Such a boy, starting with "I don't lack a girlfriend", first asked the girl to provide no makeup and no filter**, and then advised the girl not to wear nail polish. This sense of superiority is really emotional, no matter how good you are, no one may look up to you.
College students' blind date chats are too spicy and full of greasy love words, how can this continue?Although many graduates are experiencing the urging of their parents to get married, students should also be sober when making choices. First of all, it is necessary to establish a correct view of love, not only to pay attention to appearance, but also to pay attention to the conduct of the other party and their family at critical moments.
The author believes that it is very important to find a partner with the same three views, and students should understand the truth that it is better to have less than to have more. Female students must be careful not to get carried away by love. If a guy will only draw you a big pie, then leave quickly, the trivial affairs of life after marriage will make you deeply aware of what reality is.
Author's Message] Students don't need to be too anxious about age, and don't make hasty choices because they are in a hurry to start a family. Parents should also be calm, the life of graduates is not very satisfactory, they are under huge pressure in life, too coercive will only increase their psychological burden, and will also widen the distance from their parents.