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Yes, I found another big rock that was preventing me from making a lot of money, which was previously hidden out of sight. Now it's exposed.
It is. Not satisfying themselves well
In other words, when doing things, a lot of the starting point is to think about others. I don't take care of myself enough. And the link to yourself is not enough.
One, why am I not satisfying myself well?
I've been thinking about this very seriously today. Nor was a particularly clear answer found. Write down what comes to mind first.
1. Part of it may be the reason for the original family.
When I was young, I mistakenly thought that my mother favored my brother. So I will ask my mother for attention. Will want to prove himself.
The energy of the original family members is very weak, and in the process of growing up, they have taken on more responsibilities than they should have shouldered. Xi is formed.
2. Not satisfying one's own cognition first.
Many of the educational philosophies I received emphasized giving and serving others. There is little emphasis on satisfying oneself first.
Two, why am I thinking about this?
I find that when I keep going up, sometimes I don't want to go up. I took a closer look and vaguely felt that most of the results I got were for others, and I enjoyed very little and lacked motivation, so I was reluctant to go up.
Yes, if we can't satisfy ourselves well, we are always in a state of grievance. Then they don't want to go on. Because I paid so much, I didn't enjoy the results I got.
Third, how to better satisfy yourself?
At first, I was wondering what exactly I wantedWhat do you have fun satisfying?
I find this to be a difficult question in itself. For a person who doesn't often satisfy himself, he doesn't know how to satisfy himself.
I called a good friend of my own. We exchanged this topic. It inspired me a lot.
Perhaps we can think about this question on the basis of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
1. Better satisfy yourself in daily food, clothing, housing and transportation. Buy products that you really like. Enjoy a higher quality of service.
2. When do I observe myself to be happier?
I'm happier when I experience things that I haven't experienced before, and I can give myself a lot of projects that I haven't played.
When I hear and see a lot of things or cognitions that I haven't been exposed to, I'm happy. Then I will arrange myself to meet more high-energy people.
When I realized something, I was happy. Then I often do reviews and deep thinking.
When I go to do the things I like with the people I like, say that we go to eat together, go on a trip together, and go to a talk show together, we are all happy.
I have to find a group of people I like first, and then I'm going to arrange those projects.
Fourth, conclusion
I decided to put these things into practice. Better satisfy yourself and live your life well. Give yourself more motivation to move forward and have the energy to experience more.