Luo Heqi is focused on the community**
This morning's live broadcast has enlightened myself, which may be the legendary enlightenment.
Live broadcast at 7:30 every morning, it's been three months, and I live broadcast on the ** number every day, sharing the dry goods of doing **, and also sharing my experience of growth and breakthrough.
What I hope to bring to the team is:
Earn + Value.
So I'm very motivated to do it.
This is the subject that I talked about this morning. After the lecture, my own feeling was that I had a big breakthrough.
Today's biggest breakthrough is a breakthrough in the mind.
Subdue their hearts
First, why do I pay more attention to the nature of the mind?
One night, I was chatting with Mr. Jie Bin and Ziqiao on the side of the road. I just found a random place to sit and start chatting. We talked until 4 a.m.
One of the strategies that Teacher Jie Bin gave to Ziqiao was that her heart could make a lot of money. This was the first time I had a deeper understanding of the nature of the mind.
I have a good relationship with Ziqiao, and because of Brother Bin's reminder, I will always pay attention to her heart.
I found that I had a heart for Ziqiao that I wanted to help her and achieve her with my heart.
I have insight into myself, why do I have such thoughts?
First, Ziqiao admires me from the bottom of my heart. This appreciation is also an emotional value. But this emotional value is very pure.
If ordinary appreciation is just a cup of dessert.
Then Ziqiao's appreciation is a diamond.
She is the kind of heartfelt praise and affirmation from the heart, and gives the greatest tolerance and full help.
Second, Zi Qiao is a very dedicated person. The two of us often "fight" over giving each other. I want to give him a little more, she wants to give me a little more.
You will feel that there is no reward for the effort you put into this person, and you don't have to worry about it.
Third, Ziqiao often helps me and has the ability to help me.
Of these three points, the first two are the mind, and the last one is the ability.
Second, I have insight into my greatest mental challenge.
Surrender to their hearts. Yes, it was the most difficult for me.
Because my own personal ability is also very strong, it is more difficult for you to make me really admire someone from the heart.
I also have a lot of partners in my team, who are very capable, and it is very difficult for them to submit to their hearts.
I carefully saw the important reasons why it was difficult to surrender to his heart.
1. I have not seen the higher world. The level of understanding of the other party's awesomeness is not enough.
For example, when I used to go to work, there were some network-type leaders, and his main ability was to rely on networking, and for people who did practical things, they might look down on such leaders.
But people who do practical things, because they are not in that dimension, can't realize how powerful this ability to be a network is.
2. The evaluation of oneself is not objective enough. I feel like I'm amazing. Maybe he's just an ordinary person. Maybe just a little better English. Maybe it's just a little better. Maybe it's just a little bit more logical thinking.
Thinking that the other party is 80 points, the other party may be 1 million points. I think I have 70 points, but I may only have 30 points.
The lack of ability to perceive the objective gap between each other, and the fact that they have very strong self-esteem, makes it difficult to surrender to their hearts.
Third, why do you want to subdue their hearts?
1. Objectively look at your energy level in this world, birds and beasts depend on each other, and you know your superiority. Do things in an objective structure. Words and deeds are in line with what they should be in this structure. Do things more in line with the rules.
2. Right. Know the other person's energy level. Know that structurally the other party is in a high position. I can take on the responsibility of being the next family.
Don't fight for it, so as to get its help.
If you fight with the people above, you can get help from the people above. If we rely on ourselves in everything, all our lives will be wasted on our own self-reliance.
Obviously open a mouth, two seconds can be done.
But I have to work for a month.
Life was wasted in vain.
3, right down. Even if it is a structural subordinate, if the other party has a certain ability to surpass himself, he is willing to admit it, he can admire and give more respect.
Do not lose it, so as to get its help.
You truly appreciate a certain ability of your next family from the bottom of your heart, and he can feel your respect and will help you.
Fourth, what am I going to do next?
1. See more of the world.
Better and objectively evaluate those people with high energy in my life, how high is the energy?
Help me to surrender his heart.
For example, I saw Ziqiao appreciate others so sincerely, so as to inspire others to want to help him.
I want to improve my confidence even more, and I want to make a breakthrough in subduing his heart.
2. Evaluate yourself more objectively. On the one hand, I recognize that other people's energy is very high. On the other hand, it is also more objective to know where your energy level is.
In the past, I was often unclear about my energy level, according to Mr. Jie Bin's words, I was obviously a dragon, I thought I was a snake, and then I kept appearing in the image of a snake, and suddenly gave birth to the ability of a dragon, and the people next to me didn't know what was going on.
3. Be more respectful of others.
Yes yes. More attentive insight into the good of the people around you. Appreciate the people around you from your own heart.
Not only to appreciate people with lower energy than themselves, but also to be able to appreciate people with higher energy than themselves.