Recently, Andy Lau released an obituary. "Dear family, my father left peacefully on the 20th in the company of his family, thanksgiving!”
Andy Lau was so grief-stricken that he changed the company's official website to gray to mourn his father. 
His father, Liu Li, was born in 1934 and died at the age of 89. He worked as a firefighter in his youth and later made a living running a snack grocery store. His father was responsible for cooking and purchasing, and 6-year-old Andy Lau was responsible for recording the dishes on the blackboard with chalk. Liu Li has six sons. Andy Lau is the fourth, with three sisters above, and a younger brother and a younger sister below. In the early years, the family was in dire straits, and Liu Li and his wife worried about their children for half their lives. Later, Andy Lau became famous. Liu Li once publicly sighed:He was born dark and dark, and he really didn't expect to become a star. In 2003, Liu Li fell seriously ill and suffered from bladder cancer. After surgery**, although he was cured, it also made Andy Lau realize the impermanence of life. He bought a villa for his parents. Every time filming is over, I will take time to visit. During the filming of "Children's Dreams", Andy Lau invited his father to participate and leave good memories. 
In front of **, artists all have an inevitable disguise. But in front of his father, Andy Lau chose to be himself. He said"No matter how famous your children are, don't forget that in front of your parents, you will always be just an ordinary person. ”Now Liu's father has died. Yu **, but a little sigh. Yu Andy, but it may be the darkest day of his life. After that, he became a fatherless child. 
Fei Yuqing's filial piety is also moving. In September 2018, Fei Yuqing suddenly announced that he was about to retire from the circle and left a handwritten letter to the public. "When both parents died, I suddenly lost my life belonging, without their attention and sharing, the gorgeous stage made me feel even more lonely. ”"The applause can't fill my loss, going to any performance location makes me feel sad, I know it's time for me to stop, stop so that I can learn to taste life calmly. ”The words are sincere, and they are embarrassing. 
Fei Yuqing's parents divorced at an early age. is different from what ordinary people think, Fei Yuqing, who grew up in a single-parent family, still has a happy childhood. Because although his parents are divorced, their love for him has always increased. Fei Yuqing said"My parents loved me very much. ”"I feel like being a parent is a life sentence, and there is no end to everything. ”When I was a child, my family was not well-off, and my mother was busy making a living, but she didn't forget her birthday. Birthdays are as simple as making bowls of noodles and frying eggs with a spatula. "Cub, today is your birthday, mom will add an egg to you. Many years later, Fei Yuqing looked back: although the birthday was very simple, I felt so warm. On the show, Fei Yuqing recalled his mother. Her mother is from Hunan and has a spicy taste. When he was a child, Fei Yuqing asked: Mom, why do you add chili peppers to any dishes?Mom replied naughtily: Mom is from Hunan, and the cub who doesn't eat chili peppers is not my cub. 
In 2010, his mother died of illness. Although he was mentally prepared, when this moment really came, Fei Yuqing's mood still collapsed. In his 50s, he hugged his mother's body and cried so much that he couldn't help himself. One day in 2017, my father passed away suddenly. At that time, Fei Yuqing was doing a show in the mainland, and he didn't have time to rush back to see him for the last time. This became the biggest regret of the rest of his life. Fei Yuqing's friend said:Every year on the day of his father's death, he is always very depressed and very quiet. Parents are here, and there is still a place to come in life. When your parents go, there is only one way back in life. The following year, Fei Yuqing announced his permanent withdrawal from the circle. The death of his parents made him lose his motivation to move forward, and he also realized the changes in life. Retreat from the circle, slow down, and cherish these last years of impermanence. 
The first time I really felt the cruelty of life and death was at the end of 2017. In the cold winter, my grandfather had a cerebral infarction and was hospitalized. At first, the family was not worried, but when the test results came out, the doctor gave the family a reassurance:It's not a big problem, and it should be able to get through this winter. At that time, I was in Shanghai, and my father was in Zhejiang. We are still discussing that we will return to our hometown early during the Spring Festival this year, and grandpa will be able to carry it this year, not necessarily next year. Hang up**, at the request of my father, I placed an order for 2 cans of high-calcium middle-aged and elderly milk powder online. The consignee is the mother who accompanies the grandfather. But Grandpa didn't wait for this can of milk powder, and he didn't wait for us. One midnight after three days in the hospital, I suddenly received a call from my mother, who was far away from my hometown in Jiangxi. "Your grandfather is gone. After receiving the bad news, I was wrapped in huge disappointment and sadness for a while, and I didn't say anything superfluous, just replied: "Well, I'll buy the earliest ticket to go back." "The next day, my living room was crowded with people who had come to pay their respects. According to the Xi of the old family, the grandfather died and was not immediately sent to cremation. The body was covered with a cloth and placed on the ground. The children of the family knelt beside them and kept vigil all night as the last companions. Several aunts cried. My father didn't cry, but just held my father's hand and shook it for a long time. Late at night, in between entertaining relatives and friends, my father and I stood on the balcony on the second floor to rest. I looked at my father, and my father looked at the starry sky with tears in his eyes. I said, "Grandpa, at this age, don't be too upset." The father was silent for a long time and then said"My father is gone, my mother is gone, and I don't know when it's my turn. ”When I heard this, my heart trembled, as if I had seen the child of Hades's life and death talisman, and I was worried that the worst day would come. I don't know why my father felt this way. It wasn't until later that I saw a sentence in a variety show that made me have an epiphany. "Parents are a wall between us and death, parents are there, you can't see death, parents are gone, you face death. ”
Henan TV once did a street interview program, "How long can you stay with your parents?"The reporter gave a ** to the interviewee. The average life expectancy of a human being is about 75 years, 12 months per year, which is 900 months. Corresponding to **, it is the 900 space. The first interviewee was a girl. Reporter: How old are you this year?Girl: 25 years old. Reporter: 25 years old is 300 months, you take the colored pencil and draw the first three lines of space, this is the life you have already walked. The girl took the pen and swiped it easily, without feeling uncomfortable. 
The reporter asked again: How old are your parents?The girl said: 67 years old. Reporter: In terms of average life expectancy, there are 8 years and 96 months left. Then you use a red color pen and draw 96 spaces, which is the rest of your parents' time. The girl did so. At this time, his emotions were already a little out of control, and his voice was choked: "I didn't expect that the old man would not have much time left." ”
Reporter: How long can you spend time with your parents each year?
Girl: I go back once a year and stay for a week at a time. Reporter: Eight years, eight weeks, now you use colored pens to draw the last 2 grids, this is the time you can accompany your parents in this life. During the graffiti process, the girl burst into tears. "I never thought it would be like this, thinking they would live longer. ”
Another interviewee said that his parents were in their early fifties and still young. But when you really calculate it, the time you can accompany your parents is only 3 months. When the colored pen fills the last 3 spaces, I don't feel tears.
A young man told reporters: I can't wait to buy a ticket to go back now.
A simple arithmetic problem to count how many passers-by are crying. When we were young, we always thought about the future, thinking about the day when we would have a successful career, become famous, and then come calmly and filial piety. But we forgot that there are some things that can't stand the wait. Life is impermanent, and time is fleeting. Wait and wait, and at some point in the future, we may suddenly shed tears of dismay and remorse. Some people say,Filial piety, in fact, is made up of countless regrets. I regret why I didn't go home during the Spring Festival in previous years, why I regret why I didn't take my parents to the hospital earlier, I regret too much. Therefore, filial piety should be practiced as soon as possible. I often go home to see and spend more time with my parentsDon't let them Xi the disappointment of waiting. Don't let the eternal regret of "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait", it is also really, it has become your regret.