In the emotional world, sometimes women express their rejection in some euphemistic ways. They may not say "no" outright, but their behavior and attitude speak for themselves.
It is very important for men to understand the true intentions behind these "no's" of women. This article will go through three specific stories, how women express rejection through "no" in their emotions, and how men should respond to the situation.
Xiao Li has always liked his colleague Xiao Fang, and he often finds opportunities to chat with her and ask her to have dinner together. However, Xiaofang always did not respond to his invitations and overtures.
At first, Xiao Li thought that Xiao Fang might be shy, so he didn't reject him directly. But as time passed, Xiaofang's attitude towards him became more and more cold, and even began to avoid contact with him.
Xiao Li finally understood that Xiao Fang's "non-response" was actually a kind of rejection. She didn't say "no" directly, but her actions speak for themselves.
Xiao Li realized that if he continued to entangle, he would only make himself more embarrassed and painful. So, he chose to let go and no longer bother Xiaofang.
In order to pursue his goddess Xiaoli, Xiao Zhang often gave her various gifts. However, Xiaoli always refuses to accept his gifts, and even sometimes makes it clear that she doesn't need to.
Xiao Zhang thought that this was a sign of Xiaoli's shyness, so he didn't care. But as time passed, Xiaoli's attitude towards him became more and more cold, and even began to distance herself from him.
Xiao Zhang finally understood that Xiaoli's "not accepting gifts" was actually a rejection. She didn't say "no" directly, but her actions speak for themselves.
Xiao Zhang realized that if he continued to give gifts and pursue them, he would only make himself more humble and lost. So, he chose to let go and no longer give gifts to Xiaoli.
Xiao Ming has been dating his girlfriend Xiaomei for more than half a year, and they get along very happily. Xiao Ming thinks that the relationship between them is already stable, so he starts talking about future plans and commitments.
However, Xiaomei always dodges these questions and is reluctant to give a clear answer. Xiao Ming thought that it was just because Xiaomei was more cautious and thoughtful, so he didn't care. But as time passed, Xiaomei's attitude towards him became more and more cold, and even began to alienate him.
Xiao Ming finally understood that Xiaomei's "not promising the future" was actually a kind of rejection. She didn't say "no" directly, but her actions speak for themselves.
Xiao Ming realizes that if he continues to ask about his future plans and commitments, he will only make himself more anxious and lost. So, he chose to let go and no longer ask Xiaomei questions about the future.
In the emotional world, women usually express their rejection in some euphemistic ways. They may not say "no" outright, but their behavior and attitude speak for themselves.
It is very important for men to understand the true intentions behind these "no's". If a woman does not respond to a man's overtures, invitations, gifts, follow-up questions, etc., or refuses to accept it, or is unwilling to commit to the future, men should learn to let go, respect the other person's decision, and leave themselves a sense of dignity and decency.
Pursuing true love in love is a beautiful thing, but also learn to stay calm and rational when encountering rejection, and not to be overly entangled and bring unnecessary pain and distress to yourself and the other person.