1.People with a people-pleasing personality are also violent people.
2.People who are good-looking will have a bumpy love road, not a lot, but it is easy to attract lustful people because of their intuitive appearance, and any opportunity brought by lust is a disaster. Other people's motivation is wrong, the way of attraction is wrong, the catastrophe is a hidden danger, and there are many trial and error experiences.
3.Vigorous love often ends up in nothing.
4.People who are good to friends will not necessarily be good to you.
5.People who have a very bad family environment, try to stay away.
6.People who are in a hurry to get married are likely to just want to find a marriage partner in order to complete the marriage, not because of love, and the tolerance after marriage is zero.
7.Bringing up your ex in front of you often means that he is not ready to move on to the next relationship.
8.If bad things are often said about your ex in front of you, then the person is immature.
9.Don't marry far away for love and marriage, you have to marry far away for your own sustainable development. It is sustainable development.
10.A lot of contradictions and troubles are idle, try to enrich yourself.
11.Behind the strong desire for control is a lack of security.
12.Men are rational, like to digest problems on their own, and are Xi to silence. Women don't have the ability to think independently, so they vent their emotions and therefore like to nag.
13.It's not that men don't want to communicate with women, but women turn over old accounts, and their emotions are easy to be endless, so men rationally stop losses and choose to avoid entering war mode and not communicating.
14.There is a significant difference between men and women in their emotional engagement after establishing a relationship, with men reducing or stopping their engagement after establishing a relationship, while women increasing their engagement after establishing a relationship.
15.How to break the previous article?Because, a man's enthusiasm is a state, a hunting process, and when the prey is in hand, there is no need to turn on the hunting mode. The woman, who longs for the constant enthusiasm of men, always fantasizes that men can still treat themselves as they were when they were hunting. So she gives what she wants, and she happens to do it wrong, on the contrary, she doesn't understand human nature. To determine the relationship, it is the identity that is determined, and as for the business relationship, it is the business status. She should clear her daily emotional state to zero, and her attitude towards men depends on the man's own performance to strive for it, so let the man start anew every day. Continuing to turn on the mode of conquest is the instinctive nature of men in male genes. (Memorize this passage.)
16.Women don't let men guess, they say what they need, because men are straight-line thinkers, in fact, they are very simple rational animals. Your too tactfulness will only make you aggrieved, unhappy, and screwed, and you won't get anything. Don't bend around so much, just ask for what you want.
17.Intimacy is a demon mirror, and it is clear at a glance whether the two parties are human or demon.
18.Whether it is love or marriage, conflict is inevitable, and the contradictions and conflicts between the two parties are universal. Behind it, they all have different starting points and different emphases for thinking about their interests. What we need to look at is the ability, attitude, and way of dealing with each other's conflicts. Can't be wishful thinking, it's each other.
19.Don't be afraid of conflict, the more you are afraid, the more you use silence to avoid, and the more you avoid, the greater the hidden danger will hatch. Learn to take the initiative to face problems and solve them.
20.There is no such thing as immutability in this world, whether it is a person or a relationship, if you want to reduce risks and stabilize relationships, you must learn to keep pace with the times.
21.Behind the "I'm for your good" lies a desire for control and emotional manipulation. People who are really good for you have a very clear sense of boundaries, respect each other, and will not interfere in your life, let alone interfere in your life.
22.Ordinary people who study more about self-growth, worship stars less, and are too literary and artistic, try to stay away, because their real life is often a piece of chicken feathers.
23.The strong have only three things a day, making money, making money, and making money.
24.Accommodation and forbearance are two landmines in intimate relationships, because they suppress negative emotions and imply murder.
25.The true meaning of love is acceptance, and acceptance is the combination of good and bad, good and bad, good and bad, past and future. It is acceptance, not connivance.
26.Don't try to change someone, because it will be hard, it will destroy your narcissism, it will make you feel wronged, and in the end you will find that you can't change anyone. Take back the energy and focus on self-transformation and self-transformation.
27.When looking for someone to fall in love and get married, don't just look at the external conditions (appearance, job, economy, etc.), but more importantly, look at the inside, you need to look at the way the other party treats his relatives, and also observe his performance when he is angry.
28.Don't escalate the relationship too quickly and heat up the relationship. Because in a man's love, the desire to conquer comes first.
29.If the man loses his desire to conquer you, then the emotional viscosity between you will start to weaken. How should it be fixed? Focus on all aspects of self-improvement, so that the other person perceives that you are a very attractive person who needs to continue to explore.
30.When necessary, taking the initiative to show weakness will make you appear relatable. Showing weakness is a kind of emotional intelligence, and only by giving others steps can you give yourself a chance.
31.In intimate relationships, it is important not to be reasonable, but to be in advance. Provide more emotional value, take care of each other's emotions at the first time, no one is really stupid, and give each other a special position to have special treatment. But when the time is right, share your thoughts (truth) seriously, of course, right and wrong must be clear.
32.Do not build love on the basis of touching, sympathy, pity, because this is not love.
33.When you don't have a certain amount of ambiguous behavior, don't confess.
34.The girl tries not to take the initiative to confess, so that the man loses the interest in hunting and the joy of harvesting. If you want a man to confess, use attitude, not language.
35.The best way to prevent PUA is to avoid having sex too early and not having financial dealings.
36.The best way to identify a PUA is to see if he is on the premise of a disclaimer, suppressing you and praising you at the same time.
37.The essence of PUA contains emotional manipulation and is a form of love violence. The double violence of the mind and the body also adds to the financial deception.
38.The deterioration of intimate relationships, there are no innocents, all **, all **.
39.In intimate relationships, don't blame who is right and who is wrong, and there is no right or wrong, only who needs whom more.
40.After the conflict between the two sides, taking the initiative to show favor does not mean losing face, nor does it mean damaging the image, it represents the ability to love. Showing favor is not the same as pleasing people, it must be screwed clearly.
41.The four major obstacles to marriage and love: criticism, contempt, self-justification, and cold war. (John Gottman).
42.Look more at the quality of the other party's parents' marriage, and also look at his own level of self-reflection. If the marriage of the other party's parents is extremely bad, the other party himself is not self-reflective enough and tries to stay away.
43.When a married person (or partner) says to you: I like you. Then pay attention, don't fall for him. That's called desire. If you are divorced and break up, you will respect you if you like you. Among the many contracts, marriage is the most serious and morally tested.
44.The inferior nature of human nature is the underlying logic of all kinds of strange events in human beings. But when choosing a mate, what you choose is the quality of the other party, that is, cultivation, what is cultivation?The better we do, the better our cultivation will be, and the better our cultivation will be.
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