I don't know if you have noticed that your dreams are always changing, especially at different stages of life.
When we were younger, we wanted to have a dollhouse, jump into a big pool full of drinks, drink and swim, and grow up quickly, and then our dream became to have a cool sports car, a big house with a yard, and to be able to travel around the world.
After graduating and entering the workplace and starting to work, our process of socialization slowly changed, and I don't know when "making a lot of money" suddenly became the most important goal, because as long as you have money, you can "realize" all your dreams, as long as you have a lot of money, you can buy your favorite sports car, mansion and so on.
We are constantly chasing fame and fortune in front of us every day, striving to stride towards the goal of life, and unconsciously forgetting other dreams, until God suddenly sends the gift of "middle-aged unemployment", we suddenly realize that the achievements pursued in the past are not actually the dreams that we really desire.
So we decided to pause for a moment and start talking to our hearts, hoping to rediscover our true purpose in our hearts.
We have found that real dreams are very similar to true love, they are always used to wearing a layer of camouflage protection, secretly hiding in those corners that are within reach, but not clear to see, as if playing a game of hide and seek, waiting to be pulled out by your own hands.
What really matters is something that you can't see with your eyes alone.
If you can't see clearly where your dreams are hidden, Lushang Group will pay attention to your inner feelings and find out the clues of your dreams through the following 3 obvious characteristics.
Dream trait 1: Tempting enough
Whether it's a heart-pounding moment, a feeling of being struck by lightning, or a sudden stop the world turning, it can be used to describe this indescribable magical feeling at the moment.
Haruki Murakami once wrote: " On a sunny morning in April, I was in an alley in Harajuku, passing by a girl, not a very beautiful girl, not wearing any chic clothes, behind her hair, there were even traces of squirting and flattening, her age was probably close to 30, but from 50 meters away, I was already very sure that she was the girl who was pounding for me, and from the moment I first saw her shadow, my heart immediately beat irregularly, and my mouth was as hot and thirsty as a desert. ”
This is the feeling of heartbeat, if you suddenly encounter a dream in your heart, please be sure to pay attention to the strong signal from this universe!
Feature 2: Enough to last
When you're tempted, you usually hesitate for a moment, and then your inner little theater will start to play.
Can we really do it?Can we do it?Is this really what we want?
The rational angel who lives in your head will start talking to the sensual elves and come up with a hundred good reasons to reject yourself, but don't doubt it, this is a good process, everyone has limited resources, but infinite desires, this process can help you filter out those distractions and delusions in the cloak of dreams.
A true dream will stand the test of time, and if you often think of the same thing in the middle of the night, and you still can't easily forget it after a long time, then accept this strong hint.
A true dream cannot be easily forgotten, and even if you accidentally forget it, it will follow you until the day when you are willing to face it!
Trait 3: Fearful enough
Usually the bigger the dream, the deeper the fear, when you feel inexplicably excited at the thought of something, and even hopelessly tremble all over your body, there is no doubt that it is your destiny to accomplish!
At the age of 42, he decided to challenge his first full marathon, when the whole person was nervous and scared, afraid that he would not be able to reach the finish line within the specified time, leaving regretful results, and then finally overcame the fear in his heart, mustered up the courage to stand on the starting line, and ran to the finish line step by step, and the final finish time was 30 minutes left, and successfully completed this goal.
Through this experience, we understand that fear is actually an indispensable and powerful force in the process of realizing your dreams, and the more you care, the more you will feel fear, and only by bravely facing the fear in your heart can you take the first step to realize your dreams.
Keep an eye out for things that will scare you deeply, because your greatest dreams in life may be hidden in them. Lushang Group