Man is a contradictory creature.
For example, a man can cheat while not being able to leave his wife, maybe this state is very ideal, both want and want, the illusion of a winner in life.
Do cheating men cheat when they don't love their wives?It doesn't matter if you love or not, it doesn't matter if you're good or not, most of them just want to find some male ** to stimulate it, that's all.
I knew a man before, he looked good, he was able to talk, and he and his wife were high school classmates.
Since he went to the outside world, there are so many women who have experienced it. Whether it is developed or down, women have never broken. The most incredible time was with a housekeeping nanny, a divorced middle-aged woman who was 7 years older than her.
At that time, he had no income, and the friendship of his fellow villagers was infinitely exaggerated, and they lived together in less than a month.
For him, cheating is to try the water once, feel that he can swim well, and he will not be afraid to go into the water again. Later, it almost became a skill, and I didn't have to worry about it anywhere.
Every fate with a woman brings benefits to him. The worst also gave him a free place to live, free bedding, and free food.
Does his wife know?I don't know anymore, after the illegitimate child incident came out, I couldn't deceive myself.
He cheats and is addicted to not getting a divorce, which means that he still loves his wife
His wife has been disgusted by him, so he has kicked him out of the house, of course, the main thing is that he can't find anything to do at home, and the days of keeping to himself are boring, and it is not convenient to find a woman in a small place, after all, this kind of thing is still known by God that he knows that his wife knows.
No matter how you cheat, you still want to have a character and a face. No matter how much you cheat, you will send some money home. No matter how much he cheats, his family has half of his real estate. If it is really torn, the stain on personal morality does not necessarily give divorce the upper hand. No matter how much you cheat, you still have to maintain the image of being a father.
So it was my wife who endured everything?His wife has long been disappointed in him, and he probably won't shed a single tear when he dies outside. Hanging on this relationship is nothing more than being soft on the child. After all, the father in the eyes of the child is the father who goes out to make money.
You cheat on you, I live my life, the sky is high and the emperor is far away, and they have nothing to do with each other.
Their marriage has now gone through 18 years.
The wife should be **, should she cheat or cheat. If you don't love your wife anymore, you should cheat or cheat. Cheating has nothing to do with love, at least not much.
Long-term cheating must be a problem between husband and wife. But it doesn't have to come to the point of divorce.
The last thing you should worry about in marriage is the childish question of love or not. "You're cheating, do you still love me?"He cheated, he must have been confused for a while, he didn't say divorce, he still went home, he must still love me." Asking these questions and thinking about them is simply boring self-friction.
Marriage is actually a transaction!If the other party can still bring benefits to themselves, they can stay. On the contrary, because you still have value, and the value is not easy to replace at this stage, you have not been divorced.