The argument that a man cheats and doesn't divorce because he loves his wife must be put forward by a cheating man.
If you love your wife, you won't cheat on her, so she can be sad.
What men hope is that the red flag at home will not fall, and the red flag will flutter outside.
There are many reasons why men cheat and don't get divorced, and I'll say a few today.
One is career considerations.
For example, some civil servants, state-owned enterprises or well-known domestic enterprises, there is a factor in the promotion of employees in these places, that is, family harmony, which is basically that you can't manage a family well, and how can you manage a team of dozens or hundreds of people?So many men don't want to divorce for this reason, but they can't say how to do it for me, they can only make up lies and say that they love you, so I am reluctant to leave you, but these people are still suave after that, so that the people they love are sad and cry.
A consideration of face.
As soon as the divorce is divorced, a lot of things come out. For example, cheating to find a mistress, such as how to usually and so on. Good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles. In particular, this person is still a little famous in some aspects, so once he divorces, he will become the laughing stock of relatives, friends and neighbors, and he and his family can't hold their heads up, so they will definitely not divorce easily.
Of course, he can't say how to do it for me, and he has to make a reason that I love you, so I don't divorce.
And then there's the bad.
Some people are inherently bad. I can do whatever I want outside, and you are my wife, you can only listen to me, wait for me at home, this kind of person is just not to let you have a good time.
Of course, he will also find a reason, such as that he loves you in this way.
Of course, there are also some cases where these men have no ability, they rely on women to live, and even women earn money for him, but they can't control their lower body, and when they start to kneel and pray after the incident, crying and shouting that I can't get a divorce, because I still love you, in fact, he just can't live after leaving a woman.
So if you think about it carefully, there are thousands of reasons why they don't divorce, but they are all because of their own interests, and they have nothing to do with loving you, and if they really love you, they won't fool around with others.