I expressed my helplessness about the life that I could see at a glance, and I wanted to change the status quo, but I was powerless and useless
There are many comments that I can't reply to one by one, so I would like to add:
I see that many people in the comment area say that I am "vulgar", "good cards are played poorly", "how can it be fake"...
I just followed the trend to talk about my recent situation, and I thought that most people lived like me, very ordinary, ordinary, there were not many big things, and small accidents continued....Of course, there must be rich and unwealthy, but the difference is not bad. I am a civil servant in my own provincial examination, why only 3500 salary, because the county financial car supplement is 550 nothing, and I am in the government bureau, more than 600 townships and towns make up nothing!The year-end bonus is really small, 1800 last year, and my husband sent 600 a year!The provident fund pays 15% and the bilateral 640 is not included in the income. Anyway, the heating, cooling, and provident fund of all units add up to 5 a year50,000, the 5w mentioned above just doesn't add provident fund.
There are a lot of comments, basically encouraging discussion about their own lives There are also some comments that are very bad voices, I explain, I am indeed financially constrained at the moment, but all the mortgages, including buying an apartment, etc., are discussed with my husband, and I didn't expect that I would get sick when I planned these, and it was impossible to predict that I would be sick or super expensive. Although my husband and I live in poverty, but the two are working together, engagement three gold, wedding banquet, wedding, buying a house, renting a house, buying a car (second-hand transportation), decoration, and even the bride price are my husband and I made up our own, marriage is prepared by the two of me alone at the place of work, both parents and relatives just came to have a meal, so much expenses before and after, even if you save it, it is a lot of money, 19 years I only graduated for 3 years, my husband is only 2 years, ** can have so much money, don't you have to take out a loan I'm also very angry that my parents don't give me financial support, but on the one hand, it's not my husband's fault, he has been working hard