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There are many women whose families of origin are not happy, and there are no clear criteria for choosing a mate. Eventually, they are deceived by love experts and lose their lives and wealth.
Just like exams, students can only know the answers to questions if they Xi first.
Women crave stable, intimate relationships and need to set some criteria for themselves when choosing a mate.
Many women are asked, "What do you like about that man?"They will be speechless, and even think that they just like him, and love should be vexatious.
But in fact, love based on feelings is very unreliable.
It's like a passage in the psychology book "Fake Intimacy":
So, there are three things that a woman should consider before deciding to have a relationship with a man.
A good relationship does not mean that two people are connected from the beginning. But when the love period has passed and the shortcomings of both partners have been exposed, some people are still willing to make changes in order to maintain an intimate relationship.
For example, a man who is not good at expressing himself can learn to communicate effectively for a woman;A man with a bad temper can be gentle with women.
Even men who like to play games and are not willing to work hard will become proactive in order to give women a stable and beautiful life.
When a woman expresses dissatisfaction and a man continues to go his own way, it means that he is not capable of managing intimate relationships and does not really care about your feelings and needs.
Therefore, women must know how to distinguish whether a man is just having a brief intercourse for fun, or whether he is really sincere to you and wants to have a future with you.
Psychologist David Myers argues that similarity can trigger more familiarity and liking.
This means: we like people who are similar to us, not different people.
If women like spicy food and men don't eat spicy food at all, then there will be a big difference in their daily dietary choices;
If women like to read books and men like to play games, then women won't like it. Men are not practical in their work, and their spirits are empty;Men will think that women are pretending to be literature, questioning the purpose and usefulness of reading;
Including treating the same thing, if both parties have different opinions, it is easy to quarrel.
Therefore, before a woman makes up her mind to live together, she must have a more comprehensive understanding of the man in order to ensure a more harmonious relationship.
There is a true story in Divorce Lawyers Know:
A rich boy studied abroad with a girl from an equally wealthy family, and soon after returning home, they got married. But the girl found out that the boy was a "mother's boy", who listened to his mother in everything, and had a very cowardly personality. At the instigation of his mother, the boy was reluctant to take responsibility for the child in the girl's womb and soon developed a romantic relationship with a female colleague.
This story tells girls: don't agree to fall in love and marry just because a man is rich, but focus on a man's character.
Those men who are pampered, or who always have someone else to shelter themselves from the wind and rain, simply do not have the ability to face life alone and be responsible for a relationship.
A woman who is with a man who doesn't even know the responsibilities can end up facing the following consequences: betrayal, neglect.