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No relationship starts for no reason, and no relationship ends for no reason. All the disappointments are traceable.
So, what kind of performance might a woman exhibit when she is ready to give up on a relationship?
Truth be told, it's not an easy thing to give up on someone you once loved dearly. However, when various conditions and factors intertwine and make you have to give up a relationship, even if you are still deeply in love.
Usually, when a woman decides to give up on a relationship, she goes through three stages. These three stages are: the accumulation of disappointment, the period of desperate struggle, and the period of self-awakening.
This article will dissect these three phases in detail and the importance of the last one.
Stage 1: Disappointment accumulation
In a relationship, disappointment is like a sesame seed that falls to the ground. At first, there are only one or two grains, and usually the girls don't pay much attention to it, but will silently pick it up.
However, when the sesame seeds of disappointment accumulate all over the ground and can no longer be ignored, it will trigger the collapse of the girl.
When women become disappointed in their relationships, they usually don't give up right away, but rather go through a period of accumulation.
At this stage, she will think about many things, such as whether the relationship is suitable, why does the partner around her have so many shortcomings, and why he didn't do this before?Then gradually dissatisfaction and complaints about the relationship arise.
However, that doesn't mean she'll give up right away. In the early stages of a conflict, girls usually try to change each other, or lower their expectations, and try to solve these problems.
However, as time goes by, if the boy does not correct it, or if there are some new conflicts, etc., this will lead to the girl's disappointment gradually deepening.
The woman begins to think about her choice and whether it is worth continuing to hold on to the relationship. They may start thinking about breaking up, but are often hesitant for a variety of reasons.
The second stage: the period of desperate struggle
There is a well-known theory in philosophy: quantitative change causes qualitative change.Like the straw that crushed the camel, its existence was small enough to cause the camel's death.
When the accumulation of disappointment reaches a critical point, women enter a period of desperate struggle. At this stage, they have lost confidence in their relationship and feel that they can no longer tolerate the continuous disappointment and inadequacy of the other person.
At this stage, women will feel extreme pain and struggle. They have also tried to salvage their relationship, but they are often hurt more by the other's indifference and distancing.
They also want to convince themselves to adjust to the relationship, but for various reasons in reality, she sees no hope. This struggle and pain makes them feel overwhelmed, as if they have reached the end of their relationship.
The third stage: self-awakening
Wrong feelings, like the darkness in emotions, will see the light of dawn after a long period of darkness.
When a woman goes through a period of accumulation of disappointment and a period of desperate struggle, she enters a period of self-awakening.
At that time, they have a new understanding and deeper understanding of their feelings, are more aware of their inner needs, and begin to realize that they need to make changes and decisions.
They will think about their own worth and future, and re-examine their choices and goals.
At this stage, women will gradually regain their confidence and courage and begin to plan and prepare for their future. They may decide to break up, start a new life, or look for new opportunities and challenges.
They will learn to let go of the pain and grievances of the past and face the future with a more positive attitude. This self-awareness and growth will make them stronger and more confident.
After experiencing pain and disappointment, a woman is like a phoenix and begins to realize her inner needs and values.
They will understand their roles and responsibilities in the relationship, as well as the needs and responsibilities of the other person. This awakening allows them to be more aware of their goals and aspirations, which leads them to make more rational and determined decisions.
Therefore, women usually go through the above three stages when they give up their feelings.
Only when a woman survives the accumulation of disappointment and the period of desperate struggle alone will she usher in the dawn of victory and move towards self-awakening.
After all the suffering, his mentality will change, and she will not care so much about the sweetness of the love you give in the future.
If you really love a woman, then please don't let her go through this long and painful stage alone.
Once a woman reaches the last important stage, it is like drawing an end to the relationship. Because she marks that women have come out of the shadow of pain and are beginning to find their worth and happiness again.
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About the author: Xiao Wanqingqing, a post-90s self-leading creator, loves life philosophy, focuses on emotional writing and self-leading dry goods. Thank you for your attention