1. Introduction: After entering the university, I realized the difference between going to university "in the province" and "outside the province", and regretted my original choice.
When choosing a university, many students and parents are faced with a choice: whether to study at a university in the province or choose to broaden their horizons outside the province. For children, they are eager to get out of their hometowns and see the world outside;For parents, it is necessary to consider the life and career development of their children. However, it is not until graduation that they realize the huge difference between choosing to go to school in the province and outside the province, and some people even regret their choice.
1.Physical adaptation problems: Universities outside the province are often far away from their hometowns, and the living habits and environments vary greatly in different regions. For example, students who come from the South to the North may not be able to adapt to the cold wintersStudents who come from the sea to arid regions may find the climate dry and unbearable. In addition, some students with poor physical fitness may become ill due to soil and water adaptation, and it will take a while to recover.
2.Dietary differences: Eating habits vary from place to place. For example, people who don't like spicy food need to get used to eating chili peppers when they go to school in Sichuan and other placesThose who like to eat pasta in the north may often not be able to eat staple foods that suit their taste in the south. In addition, some people have a need for whole grains, but it may be difficult to find food to meet the needs at universities outside the province far from home.
3.Caregiving problems: When the child is weak or in difficulty, the child may need to seek help from a roommate or romantic partner, and the parents are thousands of miles away and it is difficult to take care of them in time. At the same time, when there is an emergency at home, it is difficult for children to return home quickly. In this case, the love and care between parents and children will be weakened to a certain extent.
4.Employment issues: When it comes to employment, local university students tend to find jobs more easily, as companies tend to prefer locals. Therefore, some students may find that they will eventually return to their hometown to develop after going out for a few years of study, and it is better to study directly at a university in the province to have a better chance of understanding the local employment environment.
1.Job competition: After choosing a university outside the province, graduates may face more fierce competition for employment. Especially in other provinces, local students tend to be more popular, while out-of-town graduates have relatively few opportunities to return to their hometowns for employment.
2.Cost of living: The salary of college graduates who have just entered the society is not high, and they not only have to pay living expenses such as rent and water and electricity bills every month, but also have to bear the repayment of student loans, and the financial pressure is relatively high. If you still have life needs such as falling in love or getting married, you may need to rely on your parents' financial support.
3.Emotional stress problems: College students who live and study far away from home may feel lonely and helpless when faced with problems in work and life. Parents are not around and are unable to provide timely help and comfort, which can cause them psychological stress. Being in a depressed state for a long time can have a detrimental effect on your physical health.
1.Score Determination: Many times, the choice of university will be limited by the results of the college entrance examination. For students with higher scores, whether it is a university in the province or outside the province, the difference is not large, and the focus is on choosing a good major.
2.Personality adaptation: Personal personality also needs to be taken into account. People who dare to take risks and challenges are more suitable to go to universities outside the province to train themselves;Those who love family and value a sense of security are more suitable to choose to go to university in the province, or even a place close to home.
3.Employment situation: Employment prospects are also an important consideration. There are more employment opportunities in first-tier cities, leaving more room for young people to develop. Therefore, for those who are already in a big city, it may be more advantageous to choose a university in the province.
When making a choice, parents should give their children the necessary advice and explain the pros and cons and differences, but the final decision is still up to the child. The question of choosing to go to college and future development is a matter of the child's own life, and they need to take responsibility for their own choices. Parents can only send their children out in the hope that they will make the right decisions and cope with the challenges ahead. The most important thing is that no matter whether you choose to go to school in or out of the province, parents should give their children enough support and love.
Summary: When choosing to go to university in and out of the province, you need to take into account factors such as the adaptation of dietary life, the situation of work and employment, and personal personality. Whichever one is chosen, the child's decision-making should be respected and they should be provided with the necessary support and advice. Choosing a university is not just about going to school, but more importantly about making decisions about your future.