Because of his own personality, he will expand all kinds of tiny details, and he has been living in his own small world, refusing to communicate with the outside world, and has worked and lived with a mask for 30 years, and has gradually begun to understand a lot of things in recent years, so there are some things you don't have to worry about, some truths are known but it is normal to not be able to do them, and time will tell you everything.
At the beginning, I will regret why I used to be jealous of others, realize the points I care about, don't break them one by one, but ask others to change, how can others be changed by you, so in the end, only myself was heartbroken, and I wasted more than 30 springs and autumns, 10 years, what did I do badly.
Later, I found that regret is useless, and it is also a waste of time, because it is precisely because of my past self and the road I have traveled that I have become the person I am now, I can't take the current vision, stand on a high platform, and laugh at myself 10 years ago, now, I often think, what am I coming to this world for, what do I want most, how do I want to leave this world, if I die tomorrow, will I be sad today, this is also the starting point of the formation of my stable three views.
1. What kind of person do you want to be?
The outlook on life is your overall expectation of your life, whether you want to be rich and live a rich life that others envy, or whether you want to be a traveler and experience the wonders of the world;I still want to be a thoughtful person and not let myself live my life in a daze;Or just want to be an ordinary person, with a car, a house, a person and a dog, I choose the last one, but this kind of life seems to me now, it is not ordinary, so it is the life I pursue, be content with the status quo, be at peace with what happens, do not need to be rich and rich, healthy, peaceful, contented and happy.
2. What are the values more important to you?
When we make decisions, we all rely on a set of life values system in our hearts to choose a relatively more valuable option, so it is also what I said above, because of the past experience, the achievement of the current self, if a person is unstable, can only rely on the existing values of the public, choose a choice of the majority, so this choice is not necessarily suitable for themselves, but it is already the best choice that can be made by themselves at that time.
In your life value system, is money more important, or friends more important, appearance more important, or conduct more important, salary more important, or platform development more important, whether it is more important to enjoy life, or self-discipline is more important...
3. What is the worldview world like?
People's three views are constantly changing, and they are changed according to the change of your knowledge structure and subjective consciousness, which is also a normal process, and there is never an extreme.