Have you ever tempted someone?What is the end result?
I think it's often good.
Why do you say that?In fact, it is very simple, when you are tempted, the other person can feel it.
Once the other party finds out, they will inevitably hide their true self.
At this time, what you try out must be a good result, and if we want to see a person clearly, we must see the truest side of the other person, not pretending.
The best way is not to tempt, but to eat.
It is useless to see clearly that a person is temptingWhen my friend Xiao Nan was pursued by a man, he was hesitant in his heart. She also has a good impression of each other, but she doesn't know each other, so she wants to know more about what kind of person the other party is. At this time, Xiao Nan chose to be tempted. When the other party was talking to herself, she tentatively asked some questions. For example, ask the other person, "Will you be single-minded in the future?""Do you owe any money?"Do you have violent tendencies?"Will you lose love in the future?”
and so on, after Xiao Nan asked, the other party answered perfectly. Half of the defense in Xiao Nan's heart was removed, and then Xiao Nan began to test his behavior, deliberately lazy, deliberately angry, to see if his boyfriend was patient with him. And her boyfriend also felt Xiao Nan's temptation and was as tolerant as ever to Xiao Nan. Xiao Nan seems to have been tempted, and her boyfriend has passed the test, but such a temptation is meaningless. Because it's all fake, to put it bluntly, if you need me like this, I'll do it for you. These are all fakes, they are all performances, and they are not the real side of a person. So, we have to understand that if we want to see a person clearly, temptation is useless. 
Eat to see a person clearlyThe best way to really see a person is to eat. When eating and drinking, a person will show his most authentic self. For example, the upbringing when eating, the attitude towards the waiter, the way when ordering, etc., can reflect a person in the most real way, and can also let us understand a person thoroughly. A friend once shared a scene where she went to eat and put together with her ex-boyfriend. The friend said that they went to dinner together, and then the boyfriend asked him what he liked to eat, after which the boyfriend ordered. The waiter began to serve the food, and when the food was served, the boyfriend just got up and knocked over a plate of dishes and got it on the boyfriend's body, in fact, there were some vegetable foam and soup stains. The boyfriend was furious and began to insult the waiter, who kept apologizing. The waiter's apology, the boyfriend still refused to give up, and asked the waiter to give him a dry cleaning fee, which was 100 yuan as soon as he opened his mouth. 
Later, the boss dealt with the matter, the meal was free, and he gave his boyfriend 100 yuan for dry cleaning, and the matter passed. Afterwards, the boyfriend said smugly: "Look, this meal has been saved, and I have earned 100 yuan." In the face of such a boyfriend, the friend is afraid, the boyfriend's unforgiving, the boyfriend's holding on, the man's bullying, the boyfriend's unreasonableness, and no sympathy. All of this has made a friend see a person with a bad deed. I have to say that eating is the best way to see a person. Especially after eating, when you encounter some things, you can understand a person in an instant, and you can see a person clearly. In the future, don't be tempted, it's fake, when you really want to see someone clearly, just go to dinner with the other person!