In interpersonal interactions, we often meet a variety of people. Some people have different hearts, one thing on the surface and one behind the other, which makes people unguardable. How can you see a person for what they really are?
Observing their behavior, speech, or understanding their interests and family background can be some effective methods. However, one of the most straightforward and effective ways to do this is to talk to them about "money".
The concept of money is people's perception and attitude towards money, and different people have different views of money. Some people see money as dung, while others value it more than life.
By talking to someone about money, you can learn about their values and outlook on life. If a person values money too much and always talks about the benefits and benefits of money, then he may be a more selfish person who only cares about his own interests and ignores the feelings of others.
Conversely, if a person is less focused on money and more on relationships and spiritual pursuits, then they may be a more generous person who is more concerned about the needs and feelings of others.
Consumption concept refers to people's cognition and attitude towards consumption, and different people have different consumption concepts. By talking to a person about consumption, you can get an idea of their lifestyle and attitude towards life.
If a person likes to show off and spend extravagantly, then they may be a more vain person who likes to pursue the superficial glamour and ignore the intrinsic value.
On the contrary, if a person pays attention to practicality and cost-effectiveness, and pays more attention to the quality of life and inner feelings, then they may be a more pragmatic person who pays more attention to the essence and intrinsic value of life.
The concept of wealth refers to people's cognition and attitude towards wealth, and different people have different views of wealth. By talking to someone about wealth, you can learn about their moral cultivation and sense of social responsibility.
If a person is unrestrained in their pursuit of wealth and will do whatever it takes to make money, then they may be a more selfish person who lacks care for others and a sense of social responsibility.
On the contrary, if a person has a correct view of wealth, can treat wealth rationally, and is willing to contribute to society, then they may be a person with moral cultivation and social responsibility, and pay more attention to their own life value and social progress and development.
Investment concept refers to people's cognition and attitude towards investment, and different people have different investment views. By talking to someone about investing, you can get an idea of their wisdom and courage.
If a person likes to take risks and opportunistic ways of investing, always chasing high risks and high returns, then they may be a more reckless and stupid person who lacks a sound investment vision and risk management skills.
On the contrary, if a person pays attention to a steady and sustainable investment method, and pays more attention to long-term investment benefits and the creation of social value, then they may be a more intelligent and courageous person, who pays more attention to their own investment goals and the sustainable development of society.
In interpersonal interactions, it's not a shame to talk about "money." Conversely, by talking to someone about money, spending, wealth, and investments, you can gain a deeper understanding of their values, lifestyle, moral cultivation, wisdom, and courage.
Of course, when talking about these topics, you should also pay attention to the manner and tone of your voice, respecting the feelings and privacy of others. Only in this way will you be able to get to know a person better and build healthier, more stable, and long-lasting relationships.