Wen Xiaomo.
I didn't say hello at the beginning of love, and I was caught off guard when love ended.
Seeing this sentence reminds me of an interesting saying:
The leaves are left because of the pursuit of the wind or the non-retention of the tree.
When a relationship fades, it is difficult to say who is right and who is wrong, maybe there is no fate. If one party in love is not in love and wants to end the relationship between the two parties, he does not want to make himself very painful, and he does not want the other party to be hurt too much, so he must deal with it calmly, say goodbye with dignity, and leave a good memory for both parties.
Today let's take a look, as the party who proposes to break up, how to end a relationship decently, I give three suggestions, I hope it will help you.
The first piece of advice: you should say the breakup in person
As the saying goes: love depends on feelings, and breaking up depends on character. When the partner in love proposes to break up, it is time to show character. Some people, choose WeChat,** or write a letter to say break up;Some people choose to break up in front of the gong;There are also some people who hold the hands of the junior and say that they broke up together. Different ways of dealing with it will have different consequences, and it will also affect the attitude of both parties towards the next relationship.
The right thing to do is:You need to choose a suitable time and place to say the breakup in person.
You need to be honest with the other person about your feelings and decisions and don't hide or procrastinate. This helps to alleviate the pain and confusion of the other person.
During the conversation, you want to stay calm and rational and not be emotional or impulsive. This helps to give the other party a better understanding of your decision and reduces arguments and conflicts.
Second piece of advice: Respect each other
You have to respect the other person, and if the other person is a good-looking person, don't mention breaking up in public;If the other person is a sentimental person, you should not mention the breakup when the other person is in a low mood.
You need to be calm and respectful, and talk politely. Don't bring up the breakup in an emotional situation, which can make the other person feel hurt or angry.
During the conversation, you can start by expressing your gratitude and memories of the relationship, and then slowly lead to the topic of the breakup. You can state your reasons and feelings, but don't attack the other person's shortcomings or blame the other person's mistakes. Doing so will help ease the pain of the other person and make the conversation go more smoothly.
The third piece of advice: be firm in your determination to break up
When the relationship between two people has broken down beyond repair, a breakup is the best option. If one partner has already decided to break up and the other party is still hopeful, then this indecision and lack of clarity can cause more pain and confusion for both parties. Therefore, it is important that the determination to break up must be resolute.
The determination to break up must be resolute, for the future development of both parties, as well as for their own happiness and growth. If you've already decided to break up, be firm in your resolve and don't hesitate or leave anything to chance.
In short, finding the right time and place, asking the other party out for a face-to-face interview, maintaining reason and respect during the conversation, and expressing the determination to break up, can relatively alleviate the pain of both parties and end a relationship relatively decently. Finally, you need to express your blessings and concern. Even after a breakup, you still want the other person to be happy and happy.
Breaking up can be painful because you're growing, like a butterfly out of a cocoon. Only through hard struggle and hard work can we get out of the predicament and become a better version of ourselves.
Hello everyone, I'm Xiaomo, work with you on emotional issues, improve the ability to love, be a warm and happy self, pay attention to me, and grow and learn with you.