Chapter 1: The duality of love and doting.
Children are the expectation and pride of parents, and they want their children to grow up healthy and safe. However, spoiling children excessively can also have a negative impact, making them "without self-control" or even "giant babies". Although parents have good intentions, their care and love for their children can also hinder their children's growth. The mother of a female classmate named "Zihan" has become a hot topic on the Internet, and netizens have said that it is "too ridiculous", which also makes teachers deeply worried.
Excessive love and pampering can have a negative effect on children. Parents are the most important and selfless in their children's lives. However, if parents take too much care of their children and do not allow them to face difficulties and setbacks, it will be impossible for children to develop their ability to be self-reliant and independent. Over-indulgence can hinder the healthy development of children, making them overly dependent on others, lacking self-confidence and lack of decision-making. Until a mother named "Zihan" lost her temper in the WeChat group, questioning why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes, while her classmates were not, which triggered a spoof among netizens. This incident caused us to think: what is the effect of coddling on children's development?
Chapter 2: The name "My Family Zihan" is very popular on the Internet.
Zihan" is still quite famous, according to data, there are not a few students in schools like Wuhan University and Northeast Normal University who give themselves "Zihan". The prevalence of this name made every class have a scene of "Zihan looking back three times". The name "My Family Zihan" has also become a hot topic, and under her ridicule, the name "My Family Zihan" has aroused heated discussions among many people. At the beginning, it was Zihan's mother who was unreasonable in the WeChat group, questioning how Zihan could be bitten by mosquitoes, not other children. This absurd move attracted a burst of laughter from netizens, who used "My Family Zihan" as the opening remark, causing everyone to laugh. The story exposes the absurdity of people's over-attention in an exaggerated, humorous way, and provokes a strong reaction in everyone's hearts.
The extension name Zihan has become a very popular title in several universities such as Wuhan University and Northeast Normal University. According to the data, many of these colleges and universities are students named Zihan. The popularity of this name has also brought a very interesting situation, that is, there is often more than one person named Zihan in a class, even people like Zihan and Zihan. And the boys, Zixuan, Zixuan, Zixuan, ......Nowadays, this popular way of naming has become a trend, which is embarrassing. However, the topic of "my family Zihan" has caused quite a stir on the Internet. It is rumored that the mother of a classmate named Zihan had a quarrel with a group of people and asked how Zihan could be bitten by mosquitoes instead of other children. This absurd move caused netizens to feel distressed and ridiculed. They started with "My Family Zihan" and created a series of interesting jokes. For example: "Mentor, why doesn't our family Zihan have a girlfriend?"With a few very funny words, it makes people laugh. Such jokes not only expose the absurdity of people's over-concern, but also show the helplessness of netizens who are helpless and speechless about it.
Chapter 3: Excessive Expectations and Teachers' Helplessness.
As parents, they have high expectations for their children and don't want their children to be hurt or frustrated. However, the truth is always so cruel that no one can escape their fate. Such difficulties and setbacks are necessary and beneficial to the development of children. But some parents, they pay too much attention to all the things of their children, and do everything possible to defend them, which not only leads to the cowardice and powerlessness of their children, but also makes teachers feel extremely troubled and helpless.
Extended reading: Parents' excessive expectations and maintenance of their children have a negative effect on the healthy development of children, and at the same time, teachers feel helpless. Parents care deeply for their children, and they want their children to grow up healthy and healthy without injury. However, some parents are overly concerned about everything about their children and turn a blind eye to the problems and setbacks they encounter. They wanted the kid to be fine and not hurt in the slightest. Excessive care and care from parents seems to be a loving feeling, but in fact, it hinders children's independent thinking and problem-solving skills. College students inevitably have to go through some setbacks and difficulties in their development, and this is a stage that everyone must go through. Parents always keep their children in a "greenhouse" and do not let them cope with all kinds of difficulties, so that they will not have good resilience and self-confidence. In the eyes of some parents, the difficulties and frustrations encountered by their children are an excuse for the teacher to be irresponsible. This kind of excessive care and accusation makes the teachers feel powerless, thinking that they can't do their jobs well, and they are still treated as "free nannies". Many parents complain very much about kindergarten teachers, who are responsible for everything for their children, whether it is eating, drinking, or lazing. However, kindergarten teachers are not "classroom teachers", they have their own educational work to do, and they cannot take care of the needs of all children. If parents ask questions about their children's food and drink, teachers will feel bored and helpless. Parents' excessive expectations and care for their children will not only affect the healthy development of their children, but also affect the work of teachers. Therefore, parents should pay proper attention to and protect their children, and give them some independent space and challenges, so that they can develop healthily. However, parents should also respect the profession and obligations of teachers, and should not put all the work on teachers, but should work together with teachers to make progress together.