As we all know, the love of parents for their children is selfless and deep. However, when love turns into over-pampering and doting, it can stunt a child's growth and even cause them to become "giant babies". As much as parents want their children to grow up carefree, the truth is that no one's path to growth is smooth sailing, and everyone will face various challenges and difficulties. If parents spoil their children and treat every setback as an unacceptable mistake, this will not only develop bad Xi habits in children, but also cause disgust and distress to teachers.
For the name "Zihan", I believe many people are familiar with it. It's a very popular name, and according to university statistics, there are 18 freshmen named "Zihan" at Wuhan University and 12 at Northeast Normal University. This phenomenon is also reflected in various classes, where there may be several students with names such as Zihan, Zihan, and Zihan in the same class. There is a similar trend in boys' names, such as Zixuan, Zixuan, Zixuan, etc. However, "my family Zihan" has become an Internet buzzword, and the sentence "Teacher, what's wrong with our family Zihan" made netizens excited. This phenomenon originated when Zihan's mother asked some vexatious questions to the teacher in the parent group, and she asked why Zihan was bitten by mosquitoes while the other children were not. Netizens unanimously thought that this behavior was ridiculous, so they began to use "my family Zihan" as a stalk, creating many interesting sentences, such as "Teacher, why does my family Zihan have no object", and added the labels of sports students and 03 years, which will undoubtedly surprise the teachers. There are also some netizens who deliberately ridiculed college students, saying, "Teacher, how can my family Zihan turn his back to the podium", "Teacher, how can my family Zihan sit at the back". These remarks are clearly the student's personal behavior, but the teacher should be blamed, and it is no wonder that the teacher feels uneasy and uncomfortable when he sees the buzzword "my family Zihan".
Although the phenomenon of "my family's Zihan" may seem absurd, it actually reflects the plight of teachers. In the process of students' growth, difficulties and setbacks are inevitable, which is what we usually call "frustration education". However, in the eyes of some parents, if teachers turn a blind eye or are indifferent to the difficulties faced by students, it is proof that they are irresponsible and do not pay attention to students. Kindergarten teachers, in particular, have endured the "nameless wrath" from many parents. However, to put it another way, kindergarten teachers are not nannies, they just do their job. There will be so much time to care about the details of each studentIf parents have to ask teachers in detail about how many sips of students eat and drink, it is difficult for teachers to have a good impression of such "fine" parents. The over-protection of students by parents has also caused a lot of trouble for teachers. Parents should take their students home and educate them by themselves, so as to avoid trouble and distress for teachers, and also better train students so that they can fully develop their abilities in the process of growth.
Kindergarten teachers need to find ways to skillfully resolve conflicts when faced with parents' questions. First of all, teachers should leave enough traces in every part of their work in case they need it. When parents question, teachers can present evidence in a timely manner and give a reasonable explanation for their behavior. Don't believe the accusations unconditionally, after all, children sometimes talk nonsense, and teachers need to maintain a stable mood, genuinely love education, and get along with students in a friendly and optimistic way. Although the salary package of kindergarten teachers is not high, getting along with the children and growing with them will make teachers feel happy and satisfied. Teachers should also establish a good image and establish a certain majesty among students. In this way, they can have enough trust and influence in the hearts of their parents and will not be seen as "free babysitters". Especially for kindergarten teachers, there are usually multiple teachers in charge of a class, and teachers should also pay attention to their words and actions, and do not behave in a way that is unfavorable to them, such as hitting and scolding students. This will not only affect your job and reputation, but may also adversely affect your future.
Finally, we should recognize that it is good for parents to pay attention to their children's development, but excessive attention can cause distress and unhappiness to others. Parents should also reflect on their own behavior, solve problems at the root of the problem, and learn Xi more advanced education methods to better nurture their children. When kindergarten teachers are faced with the challenges of parents, they need to be good at resolving conflicts, maintaining emotional stability, genuinely caring for students, and establishing a good personal image. Only in this way can the relationship between teachers and parents coexist harmoniously, and children can grow and develop in an all-round way.
Finally, we must also realize that Internet memes are only temporary pan-entertainment, which cannot be exaggerated, let alone replace thinking and solving real problems.