patted his ass and quit his damn bad job, thinking about doing something good for his daughter-in-law and son, after all, I had lived a little life between the two of them. Carrying a bag of things, he rushed to the city as if he was going to war, and his heart was happy.
As soon as I arrived in the city, I realized that my daughter-in-law was not at all what I had in mind, sensible!I knew that I was nestled in bed all day long, and I was screaming at every turn, asking me to bring a basin of water to wash her feet, and I had to get her three or two pillows. My mouth, which never stopped, became her family's free labor. As a result, she still talked to her mother behind her back, saying that I was a free babysitter!I thought to myself, well, this time it's really boring.
Fed up with this sullen day, I returned to my hometown and lived a lazy life with my wife. But my daughter-in-law actually wanted to pull me to take care of her children, and she also offered her a salary, which is really a ghost to believe. I smoked a cigarette and politely declined, her face was cloudy, I didn't bother to bother, anyway, I had already seen through her tricks, and her tricks were really not worth my bother.
The life in my hometown is relaxed, but I can't let go of my daughter-in-law's troublesome things. I always think, if I work hard for my family, can't I get some respect that I deserve?My daughter-in-law's attitude made me start to re-examine this family ethic, whether there should be a new definition. Is such a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship worth it?Perhaps, I should find a way to regain my inner balance.
After thinking about it for a while, I decided to talk to my daughter-in-law to see if I could achieve an equal and win-win result. During the conversation, she was obviously a little surprised, probably not expecting me to open such a mouth. I told her that the family is a big stew pot, and everyone has to contribute to the fire in order to cook the happy taste we want.
Through communication, she gradually began to understand me, and I gradually understood her difficulties. In this way, we found a new balance and began to rekindle the dawn of the family. After regaining the balance in my life, my relationship with my daughter-in-law has improved a lot. Every day is no longer so tangled, and life has become more flavorful. However, just when everything was stabilizing, something unexpected suddenly happened.
One day, I was wandering around the house, and suddenly received a ** from my daughter-in-law, and her voice was full of anxiety: "Old lady, my baby is sick, can you hurry up and take a look?".”
I sighed in my heart, didn't say a word, threw down the ** and rushed to the hospital. When I arrived at the hospital, I saw my daughter-in-law holding the baby and her brows were tightly locked, and I thought to myself, "What's wrong with this kid?".”
The doctor diagnosed that the baby had a severe cold and needed special care. My daughter-in-law and I were shocked when we heard this, and we had to be cautious now. My daughter-in-law looked at me with gratitude and worry in her eyes, and she said, "Old lady, I really thank you so much, this time it really helped." ”
I waved my hand and let it go: "*This is what I should do." ”
In the following days, I took care of the housework and the baby's affairs in an orderly manner, and served the two of them wholeheartedly. My daughter-in-law gradually began to change her opinion of me, often praising me for the delicious food I cooked and the excellent skills in taking care of the baby. This reversal gave me a sense of solidarity in my heart, and I also felt that my efforts were not in vain.
However, just as our family was getting better, a new challenge arose in front of me. My daughter-in-law said that she wanted to find a new job and hoped that I could help take care of the baby for a while. She offered to pay me more and let me take care of her full-time while she was away from home.
When I heard this proposal, I was stunned for a moment. This is really unexpected, I thought that my daughter-in-law and son were already fine, and everything would return to the track of ordinary life. But unexpectedly, new problems followed.
I scratched my head and hesitated, "I want to help with this, but you have to think clearly, this is not a joke." If the baby is sick or something, something happens to you, isn't I carrying a big burden?”
The daughter-in-law said with a firm look in her eyes: "Old lady, I know you will worry, but I am really a little anxious." If you're willing to help me and pay me, I'll try to make it easier for you. ”
The corners of my mouth twitched slightly, this is a reversal, at first I thought she was trying to take advantage of me, but I didn't expect her to be really difficult. Looking at her determined gaze, I suddenly softened and nodded: "Okay, I'll help you this time." However, you have to give me a good salary increase, I don't just look for it. ”
The daughter-in-law was so happy that she almost jumped up and thanked her. I silently thought to myself, maybe this is a new challenge, but maybe in this challenge, the understanding and trust between us will be deepened.
So, I started a new rhythm of life. I take the baby during the day, and I have to cook some meals at night, and sometimes I can't even keep my own time. However, thinking about how lively this little family is getting day by day, I also think it's worth it.
When my daughter-in-law came back from work, she saw that the house was in order, and she gradually changed her opinion of me. She began to take the initiative to help with some household chores, and it was obvious that she had some gratitude and respect in her heart. I smiled, and it was my breath.
Life is gradually getting on track, and family relationships are gradually becoming harmonious. After going through a lot of twists and turns, I realized that the family is not all smooth sailing, but we need to face and solve it together. With more understanding and trust, our lives are also more fulfilling.
Looking at the happy appearance of my daughter-in-law and my baby's family of three, I was secretly glad that I had made some changes. Life is like a long-distance race, and it requires not only patience, but also mutual support. Perhaps, only when facing problems can we truly get to know each other and find a better way to get along.
All this made me understand that the happiness of the family does not come from the efforts of one person, but requires the efforts of each family member. At this new starting point, I think our family will become more happy because we have learned how to manage this family relationship with heart.