"You did give me a head in bed today, I really want to do that with you...”
She can compare to you!I want to see **xx....”
Bring pajamas at night, I'm bored in the hotel by myself....”
No one can get out of their boyfriend's phone alive
My friend Xiao A cried to me, she said that she saw a challenge on the Little Red Book, the name of the challenge is "No one can come out of her boyfriend's mobile phone alive", she thinks about her object, she is 1.8 meters tall, or her college classmates, personable, usually shush the cold and ask for warmth, there must be flowers and gifts during the New Year's holidays, walking on the side of the road, seeing a flower to share with herself, her usual hobby is to play "Glory of Kings", "Dungeons and Warriors", and even "eat chicken" doesn't play, friends say that she is simply a winner in life, she is the pearl of the family, and her boyfriend is handsome and single-minded.
When Xiao A and Y were together, we weren't really optimistic about this pair, because Xiao A's family was too rich, and Y only had a good face, but only academic qualifications. According to Xiao A, Y is a rural person, has two sisters at home, and his parents smashed the pot and sold iron for the best high school in the Y market, and Y was also angry, and was admitted to the best university in the city where Xiao A is located, and after graduating from college, Y happened to work in the same company as Xiao A.
Why weren't we optimistic about A and Y in the first place?It's because we all think that Y may have other plans, because that company is Xiao A's family, and Xiao A's food and clothing degree and Y are not of the same magnitude, but Xiao A and Y have been together for three years, and we have seen Y's attitude towards Xiao A in the past three years, and three years is enough time to dispel our suspicions, but I didn't expect that we would get engaged next year.
When Y first worked, Y shared a small single room less than 20 meters with other people, and now Y has moved into Little A's villa, cooking and nanny, so Little A doesn't understand, when Y was poor and white, he was so good to her, and he was willing to run for an hour on a snowy day to buy her favorite skewers, why do you want to cheat now, Little A cried and asked me, is it that men become bad when they are rich?
When a man is rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman is bad, he is rich.
After a man becomes rich and powerful, it seems that the first thing he wants to do is always to abandon his bad wife, and then marry himself a young and beautiful wife, so that it will "save face" to take it out.
Everyone has a love for beauty, from a legal point of view, this kind of behavior is not illegal, just a little moral flaw, but this situation does not apply to Xiao A, although Xiao A is not smaller than Y, but Xiao A is also a big beauty recognized by us, when she was in college, she was jokingly rated as a college flower.
Another situation is that Y has two older sisters, that is, Y's parents should be a bit patriarchal. It's not a prejudice against this kind of family, but from the growth experience around me, the sisters in the patriarchal family have to bear the responsibility of taking care of their younger brothers since they were young, and at this time they are equivalent to half a mother, as a half mother, it is natural that they can't compete with their younger brothers, and they can't grab with their younger brothers, so they will develop the character of the boys in the family who are self-respecting.
This type of person is usually more selfish, does not know how to share, and only takes for granted what belongs to them, and has no sense of gratitude. In the relationship between Little A and Y, in fact, Little A is in the dominant position, Y lives in the house of A, Y works under the prospective father-in-law, Y is promoted quickly, and there are not many intrigues in the company.
This situation is also similar to some boys called Yaozong, Yaozu, and Tianci, or boys with pigtails on the back of their heads, these boys may usually be passed on for three generations, and they are expected to be high, so they are the baby bumps of the whole family since they were young, and they are afraid of falling off in their hands and holding them in their mouths.
What kind of boy do you think is the best choice?An only child or a boy with a younger sister in the family, being an only child means that he does not have to deal with the conflicts caused by the unequal distribution of wealth between his concubines and brothers, and having a sister in the family proves that the family is not patriarchal and that the boy will take care of others.
It's not that men become bad when they are rich, but that they don't have capital when they're poor
The advice between a rich man and a man without money is to choose a rich man, not to teach you to worship money, but because for a rich man, his choices are more and wider, he has the capital to choose all kinds of women, but he did not choose other people, but chose you, why?Because of love.
Maslow, a famous American social psychologist, proposed that people have five levels of needs, namely: physiological needs, safety needs, belonging needs, respect needs, and self-realization, of which physiological needs include: breathing, food, water, sleep, sex, etc., safety needs include: personal safety, health security, resource ownership, etc., belonging needs include: friendship, love, sexual intimacy, etc., respect needs include: self-esteem, confidence, achievement, etc., self-realization includes: morality, creativity, consciousness, etc.
For a man who has no money, he has only reached the first level of needs: physiological needs, need breathing, food, water, sex (note, it's not love, finding a lady is also a need to realize sex), and a rich man, on the basis of realizing physiological needs and safety needs, can come to the third level of needs: belonging needs, that is, at this time there is friendship, love, Sexual intimacy, if you want love, of course, choose a rich man, if you want to alleviate poverty, you can also choose a man without money, you can work together, I will respect and bless everyone's fate.
The contradiction between growing desires and unbalanced and inadequate stimuli
In physiology, there is a term called stimulus threshold, which refers to the fixation of the time of stimulation and the intensity of stimulation-time change rate, and the minimum stimulus intensity that has just caused tissue cells (body) is called threshold intensity, referred to as threshold. Three conditions are required for stimuli to induce the release of body behavior: 1) stimulus intensity, 2) stimulus time, and 3) stimulus intensity-time change rate.
In reflex activities, the size of the threshold is fixed, but in complex activities, the threshold is affected by various environmental conditions and animal physiology, and when a behavior is more difficult to release, the threshold is raised. For example, after completing a certain behavior, the animal's requirements for this behavior will be greatly reduced.
For example, you often eat sweets, so when you drink milk tea, you only feel sweet when it is full sugar, and it is not sweet when it is seven points sweet. When you eat hot pot, you feel that the bottom of the pot is becoming less and less spicy for you, so you start to be slightly spicy, medium spicy, spicy, and heavy spicy, and then start to tell the boss, put more chili peppers, the kind that is spicy to mine, this is because your stimulation threshold has increased.
When you have money, you earn 5.08 million a day, 2.08 million a day, and 280,000 a day, and you start to feel that money is just a number, how much will your stimulus threshold be raised?How much excitement do you think couples can bring you?
At this time, will you do something that you would not normally dare to do?For example, to seek some stimulation that is not illegal but cannot be exposed to the sun, such as cheating on the legs?even began to frantically test on the edge of the law, and then thought that people had crossed that red line unknowingly, and then went to jail?
In psychology, it is believed that many people with *** personality disorder have abnormal manifestations in adolescence or even early childhood, as early as six years old. Generally speaking, people with a personality have three behaviors in childhood: arson, bedwetting and animal cruelty. Of course, it is not that these three behaviors will become *** personality, do not reverse cause and effect, in fact, this kind of person with *** personality will eventually embark on the road of crime is also related to the stimulation threshold.
A teenager, when they were young, began to abuse cats and dogs, in the night when no one was around, in the silence of the night, they lay on the bed, regurgitated the bloody memories of those cats and dogs over and over again, the neighing of cats and dogs made them experience the pleasure of adrenaline rush, their eyes lit up, staring at those animals in the remote, undiscovered corners of the struggle hobby, after enjoying it, the stimulation threshold increased, so they began to stretch out their sinful hands to children, women, the elderly, and embark on the road of crime.
Why do men become bad when they are rich?The AI replied
Whether a man can go bad when he has money is a complex issue, and it is not possible to simply associate money directly with moral character. An individual's morality and behavior are influenced by a variety of factors, including the individual's values, educational background, family environment, social influence, etc.
Having wealth may bring more opportunities and resources to a person, but it does not mean that everyone who is rich will go bad. Some people maintain good moral character and values in the process of becoming wealthy, and they may use wealth to help others, give back to society, or pursue higher goals.
However, wealth can also have a negative impact on some people. Some people may pursue power, pleasure, or abuse resources because of the ** of wealth, leading to a decline in moral character. This phenomenon is not unique to men, and women may face similar challenges as well.
Therefore, a causal relationship cannot simply be established between wealth and moral character. People's moral character is the result of a complex interaction of individual differences and social factors. To fully assess a person's qualities, multiple aspects such as their behavior, values, moral choices, and impact on others need to be considered, rather than being judged solely on the basis of their financial situation.