In 2002, Tongali released her *** photo, with her beautiful posture and psychedelic lights, which made her a goddess in everyone's minds for a while.
However, her father was so annoyed by this that he didn't talk to her for half a year.
Soon after, her husband also chose to divorce.
Tongali almost fell into depression, and she was met with crazy abuse as well as being frantically sought after.
However, when recalling the scene, Tongali just smiled and said, "I don't have any regrets." ”
Tongali was born in 1976 in Anhui. Although she is still very young, her family has already begun to look forward to her growing up to be an outstanding talent, as dazzling as the talent of a dragon and a phoenix.
My father was full of hope, and he looked forward to Tongali growing up to be a promising person, and he also expected her to achieve extraordinary things.
Dad took Tongali to school when she was 9 years old, but soon after, the teacher approached her because he thought Tongali was not serious about Xi, so his father seemed very serious.
The teacher hurriedly comforted him, "You don't need to be so nervous, I just think Tongali is very talented and very suitable for learning Xi gymnastics." ”
After the teacher finished speaking, my father finally breathed a sigh of relief.
When they got home, their parents discussed it and decided that it would be a good idea to let Tongali learn Xi gymnastics, as suggested by their teacher.
Fortunately, the teacher did not misunderstand, and Tongali made some small achievements in the process of learning Xi gymnastics.
Despite this, Tongali still loves to dance. A few years later, she still chose the path of dance, and although it was a bit hard, she loved it very much.
After graduating, Tongali immediately joined Anhui Provincial Television Station. She worked there for decades, and despite stability, she always felt that she was not enough. Therefore, after careful consideration, she decided to go to the North Dance to study Xi to further improve herself.
Tongali's daily dance classes have exhausted her physically and mentally, but even so, she still feels unsatisfied because she thinks she is young and has a lot to Xi.
After thinking about it repeatedly, she deliberately took a performance Xi, which helped Tongali's dancing skills to a certain extent Xi.
I hope to make her performance more lively and interesting, and more energetic.
She not only participates in the performance of the song and dance troupe, but also participates in the filming of the crew in her spare time. She didn't know when the opportunity would come again, but she was convinced that there would come a day.
Occasionally, her parents would write to her to advise her not to be anxious. Tongali looked at these letters, felt the warmth of home, and the tiredness in her heart suddenly dissipated.
When Tongali was 18 years old, she went to a movie studio to act, and she didn't dress up too much, but she unexpectedly became a beautiful scenery.
Her eyes, her laughter, and her eyebrows all deeply attracted the director Shen Dong not far away, making him eager to get to know her and get to know her better.
Shen Dong meets up with a friend and gets acquainted with a girl named Tongali who makes his heart flutter.
Since they met, Shen Dong would talk to Tongali intentionally or unintentionally, although the discussions were all mundane topics, but gradually Shen Dong integrated into Tongali's life.
After a period of getting along, Shen Dong confessed to Tongali, and after he said this confession, he stared at her tightly, but his heart was constantly restless.
Of course. Tongali's affirmative answer relieved Shen Dong's nervousness, and his eyes were full of joy instead of the previous uneasiness and nervousness.
Couples in love always want to stick together, but both have their own careers, so Shen Dong bought a pager for Tongali.
When you miss each other, you can express your feelings by sending the code 888; And if you want to confess your love but it is difficult to say it directly, you can send 777, which means "I love you".
The love between the two is not bumpy, but like flowing water, soft and natural connection to each other's lives.
Soon after, they got married, and their married life was no different for them, and both of them achieved brilliant results in their respective careers.
Sometimes it's so busy that even eating becomes a luxury.
Tongali and Shen Dong naturally understood that they might encounter a similar situation in the future, and after careful consideration, they decided to concentrate on their careers first and postpone their birth plans for the time being.
In 2001, a friend casually mentioned that "you can try to be a model" when a friend chatted with Tongali, but this sentence caused small ripples in Tongali's heart.
After a few seconds, she immediately dismissed her idea, which she felt was too unrealistic.
A few days later, a person in charge approached Tongali and told her that she needed to shoot an underwear commercial. Tongali listened for a long time before realizing that she was going to make herself a model.
Seize the opportunity, now is the time.
Tongali was very nervous at first with the filming set, but as the filming progressed, the atmosphere gradually relaxed her. There were only a few staff members present, and they all praised her figure, which made Tongali feel a little blushing, and a small question suddenly popped up in her heart: "Is my figure really so good?" ”
After pausing the shooting, Tongali looked at the ** and sighed softly: "My original figure is really good." ”
This shoot gave Tongali a lot of confidence and opened up a new path in her life – to become a model.
She revealed the news to Shen Dong, who was naturally happy when he saw the happy expression on her face.
Her family expressed strong support for her new career path, hoping that she would be able to arrange her work reasonably without being overworked, and at the same time remember to communicate more with her husband.
Tongali agreed without hesitation.
In 2002, an agency contacted Tongali and invited her to do *** photography. At that time, there were no such photographs in China, but Tongali's intuition told her: "This is art, and it is worth trying".
This period of youth is so brilliant that she hopes to treasure it and savor it slowly when she is old. She thought to herself.
She decided to take over the shooting, and at the same time she also understood the importance of this matter, and she immediately told Shen Dong as soon as she got home.
Shen Dong still disagreed after thinking about it for a long time, he was worried about what would happen if there was a problem during the shooting, but Tongali said that these could be guaranteed.
Shen Dong heard Tongali's firm tone and knew that he couldn't stop it, so he decided to let her go to filming.
The filming went smoothly and Tongali returned to her previous life after the shooting.
However, she received an unexpected news - her ** is going to be published! Tongali was about to dial **, but suddenly remembered that she had already signed the contract.
Tongali felt extremely upset about this for several days, and her friend saw her state and gave her a suggestion: "Why not publish a book yourself?" ”
Tongali also made sense to consider this, and since it was going to be published anyway, she simply made her own decision.
She began to search the Internet for materials, comparing the best selection, typesetting, binding and design levels of various publishers. These considerations made her wonder which publisher to choose.
She even considered the distribution channel and market positioning, but most publishers did not dare to guarantee that it was artistic, and commercial distribution was also something she did not want to see.
After some consideration, Tongali finally chose someone with outstanding appearance.
After deciding on the publishing house, she thought about how many volumes she wanted to publish. She didn't want to print too much and finally decided to print 10,000 copies.
However, what she did not expect was that the stock of 10,000 copies was quickly sold out, and the publisher hurriedly rushed to print an additional 5,000 copies.
Shen Dong was quite unhappy with these behaviors, and when he thought of so many people buying photo albums and focusing on Tongali's body, he always had a special emotion in his heart.
After Tongali's release, she also went home, originally she wanted to mention it to her parents, but seeing that her father was not in good health, she was worried that she would say something and let her father be hospitalized.
still chooses to hold the words in his heart.
However, the family still needs to know about the matter, and she confessed to her mother, brother, sister-in-law and many others.
After listening to this, the family fell into silence for a few seconds, and the mother did not say anything, but just nodded, it seemed that she understood Tongali's behavior, and did not blame her daughter, but said that she would fully support her daughter's behavior.
The young people quickly understood and thought that this was not a serious matter.
The family's expressions calmed Tongali's heart.
After Tongali returned to her hometown, a book signing event was held. However, what she didn't expect was that it was this signing that put her in the limelight.
Who is Tongali, the whole network is searching, and some people are still searching for her **.
Tongali has become one of the top searched figures.
Afterwards, Tongali was overwhelmed by the overwhelming invective, not expecting that her photo would arouse the anger of others.
Even my father already knew about it.
My father went to a friend's house as a guest, and after the meal, he noticed a stack of newspapers stacked on the table, picked it up and flipped through it, but unexpectedly saw Tongali's name, as well as words related to "naked" and "related".
He looked around, didn't see his friend, and rolled up the newspaper and put it in his pocket.
He then said hello to his friend and trotted home, who looked at his anxious back and was curious.
When my father got home, he immediately dialed ** and quickly asked, "Are you...?"
Tongali immediately understood what was happening, she had planned to hide it from her father forever, but she didn't expect to be so embarrassed to find out.
The father heard no sound from the other side and understood that his daughter had acquiesced. He tried to say something, but couldn't. After a few seconds of pause, he sighed and hung up hard.
For the first time, she felt panicked, and Tongali could believe her father's expression.
At the same time, even Shen Dong felt angry, and his heart was very uneasy to see his wife become the object of other people's discussions.
When he went to work, he could also hear his colleagues talking in low voices, and their voices would not pause briefly until Shen Dong officially stood in front of them.
He had no understanding of Tongali and was even angry with her.
Tongali was also outraged, and she couldn't understand why she was being insulted for taking pictures of herself.
She always hoped to communicate with Shen Dong, but she was always unable to do so, and finally left in a very depressed mood.
Tongali once wanted to call her father, but every time she called the family's **, her mother always answered, and she understood that her father was unwilling to talk to her.
She is eager to make a difference in the entertainment industry, but most of the roles are biased towards the ** image, which makes Tongali feel unexpected.
A first-line director once approached Tongali to arrange a nude dancing scene in the film, but Tongali refused, and she did not want to attract criticism for this.
In the end, she rejected the director under the pretext that she was prone to colds.
Tongali always hid alone in the house, trying to avoid the sounds coming from all directions, but even so, some voices still rushed into her ears unstoppably.
She always receives messages from her primary school friends, who are amazed at how dare Tongali do something out of the ordinary.
She was getting depressed and looking at her classmates in elementary school. She didn't dare to open the curtains and tried to avoid going out.
She doesn't even dare to drink coffee, tea and other beverages so as not to interfere with her sleep and cause irritability at night.
As the nights came one after the other, Tongali recalled everything that had passed, and sometimes she regretted it, but that emotion was only short-lived.
For half a year, Tongali stayed at home, never went out for a walk, and never communicated with her father.
However, she was still able to receive a variety of mails and messages on a daily basis, with the difference being that she received more and more letters from women compared to the initial name-calling.
The messages are all encouraging Tongali to stand up, and it's not your fault to shoot **.
The friends around her took turns to comfort her.
Naturally, his father's friends knew about it, and they always dragged him for a walk, and even his family kept persuading him.
From her eldest brother and sister-in-law, to Tongali's mother, she took turns to persuade every day.
After a long period of listening, the father gradually understood Tongali and realized that his daughter was pursuing art; Therefore, the relationship between the two is gradually repairing.
The relationship with his father has improved, but the relationship with Shen Dong is still awkward.
With the passage of time and the increase in public acceptance, the matter gradually lost its initial heat.
However, it created a gap between Shen Dong and Tongali.
The relationship between the two is as pure as when they first met, plus other troublesome things in life.
They reached an agreement for divorce in 2008.
In the days that followed, she would occasionally participate in some TV series, or jump on stage, and finally return to her original ordinary life.
When asked again about the situation, she attended the show and was asked if she had ever regretted it.
There were moments like that, but I'm very grateful for that experience.
She tries to share some life stories or thoughts on her social media accounts, but in recent years she has preferred to avoid the public eye.
TV series are no longer filmed, and even the dynamics on social ** have stagnated. But underneath her birthday post, there are still some people looking forward to Tongali's return.
Looking forward to watching her dance, or looking forward to watching her perform.
Even if she is not active, people will still like her and remember her.
She is not sad because of the human body photo album, but because of the pursuit of art. She was sad and hesitant, but in the end she chose to stand up.
She lives her life independently, even if it is difficult for others to understand, which is a kind of freedom.