There are all kinds of people in this world, there are people who are dedicated to feelings, and naturally there are people who treat feelings very casually. Such a person always has an indifferent attitude, it is common to contact several people at the same time, in the face of other people's feelings, do not like and will never simply refuse, but to hang others, accept the good of others but do not respond to others, and feel at ease, others are just spare tires in her eyes. And when they get tired of playing, they always want to find an honest man to marry. This kind of person always has an inexplicable confidence in herself, feeling that others will always wait for her, and she will blame others if others no longer follow her wishes.
Being honest doesn't mean that others are stupid. Honesty means that this person is down-to-earth, sincere, and takes a relationship seriously, which does not mean that others will not look back after hitting the south wall. Because others love you, they will choose to be good to you, so they will tolerate you and tolerate you, but this does not mean that you can trample on other people's feelings at will and spoil other people's minds at will.
How you treat others, others will treat you, honest people are not a dough that can be kneaded, you can do whatever you want, everyone has their own temper, everyone has their own bottom line, and people who play with other people's feelings at will will one day be abandoned by everyone.
Warmth is a person who wanders among all kinds of people without touching a leaf, but when she got tired of playing, she turned around and found that she was still alone, and then she remembered the person who had chased her for 5 years, but when she confidently tested others, she found that she was the joke.
01.Spare wheel.
Warmth is very beautiful, she knows this herself, she is the kind of person who is beautiful and self-aware, and will use her beauty to fight for her own interests, Warm knows very well that this beauty is her strongest capital.
Warmth is not very good, but this beauty still makes her the focus, Warmth has been in love since junior high school, she has many suitors, but without exception, those who have fallen in love with her are either in better conditions at home, or they are more open in school. After going to college, there are no more restrictions, there are more people who pursue warmth, and other people's choice may be to have a good campus relationship with the person they like, but in the face of so many suitors, warmth does not want to give up anyone.
Warmth and many people have added WeChat, chatting with different people every night, roommates are quite impressed by the warmth, chatting with a person by themselves is enough to exhaust the heart, and the warmth can still be comfortable in the face of so many people. And during the holidays, warmth will also shield one of these suitors left by others, and send a very ambiguous circle of friends to say that he lacks something, and warmth naturally received countless gifts. But the feelings that don't get a response will definitely become tired, and warmth won't allow this kind of thing to happen, and she understands that she has to give others some sweetness. From time to time, she will send some people messages such as she misses him and feels lonely now, and asks others to meet, but she will definitely stagger the time.
And whenever a suitor asks Warmth why he hasn't responded to him for so long, Warmth will coquettishly say that this kind of thing can make a girl speak, the hero is sad about the beauty, and Warmth will give these suitors the illusion that she is in love with them, but if you think about it carefully, you can find that Warmth has never responded positively to their confession. Warmth is like this, not refusing or agreeing, enjoying the pursuit of others, enjoying this ambiguity. Even after work, this is still the attitude of warmth towards feelings.
Warm she indulges in the sound of dogs and horses, she goes to nightclubs, goes to jumping, and socializes with all kinds of people, even if she is in love, she still won't cut off contact with other people, what man can stand his girlfriend cuckolding his head like this, every warm relationship can't last more than a month, but she doesn't care, she is young and beautiful, and there will never be a shortage of such a man around her.
Warmth actually has no special feelings for her suitors, many people choose to give up when they see no result, but only one person has never given up, even if Warmth has a boyfriend, he still tells Warmth that he will always wait for her. The suitor's name is Liu Ming, and in the warm eyes of Liu Ming is the kind of honest person who will take over even if the goddess is pregnant, and the remarks she gave Liu Ming are all licking dogs.
Liu Ming's way of chasing people is very traditional, sending breakfast, sending clothes when it's cold, picking up warmth when it's windy and rainy, and giving warm gifts are all made by himself, but these warmth are not needed, and in the eyes of warmth, these so-called true feelings are far less than material. But she still hangs Liu Ming as before, saying thank you Liu Ming for the gift she gave her on WeChat, and Liu Ming's gifts in real life are often in the trash can.
Later, Nuan found that even if she didn't give Liu Ming sweetness, Liu Ming still chased after her and didn't give up, seeing Liu Ming's news, Nuan always felt ridiculous, and Nuan always felt that Liu Ming was stupid in her heart. Liu Ming treated her sincerely, but she only felt that Liu Ming was like a joke.
02.Get you back.
But no matter how beautiful her face is, there is a time when she is old, and the people around her gradually stop chasing her, and one night she drank too much wine, threw up on the toilet, and fainted and fell asleep in the bathroom after vomiting. When I woke up the next day, my whole body was sore, especially my neck hurt so much that I couldn't turn it, I felt a burst of emptiness when I sat on the sofa for no reason, I felt very bored after playing for so many years, I was tired, she wanted to get married, she remembered Liu Ming, Liu Ming has been chasing her for 5 years, and if you want to get married, you have to find someone who is good for you.
Nuan turned out Liu Ming's WeChat, the two of them hadn't chatted for more than a month, and Nuan decided to test Liu Ming first. She directly sent Liu Ming a sentence of "borrow money".
You can't just come up and borrow money for no reason, you don't even have a reason, I'm not a big wrongdoer. Wen Wen was stunned when she saw Liu Ming's reply, shouldn't Liu Ming give her money directly without saying a word, why is this still a posture of negotiating with her, Wen Wen's heart is a little unhappy, but she has been arrogant over the years, and she always feels that as long as she is soft and coquettish, she can get everything she wants, not to mention that Liu Ming loves herself so much.
In fact, I have been accustomed to seeing all kinds of people over the years, and I have only now realized that the only person among these people who really treats me is you. ”
Hearing this, are you going to confess to me?This sentence really angered the warmth, his words were so obvious, if others heard this, they would definitely be excited to express their love with the warmth, how could this Liu Ming be like an elm head.
As soon as the sentence "yes" was sent, Wen Wen received a message from Liu Ming.
I'm embarrassed to tell you the truth, in fact, I'm married, what kind of person you are for five years, I've long seen clearly, I'm not a fool willing to be a spare tire for others, of course, I bought any handmade works, twenty yuan, the reason why you send me a message I will reply two sentences, just to see what you end up with, you sober up, big sister, it's not that you say what others have to do, those people will coax you just think that there is a advantage in you to take advantage of, don't treat yourself as a treasure, buy a mirror and take a good look at yourself。 ”
Liu Ming's words were like a slap on Wen Wen's face, Wen Wen always felt that she was a baby held in the palm of her hand, but in fact, in the eyes of many people, she was a prodigal person, and she was the real joke.
True love for true feelings, true heart to heart, no one will always stand in place and wait for a person who can't wait, you don't know how to cherish other people's contributions, don't know how to cherish other people's feelings, and invite others to come and go, then don't blame others for doing this to you in turn, but a sentence of heavenly reincarnation. Treat feelings to be single-minded, this is a requirement for self-morality, you feel that your feelings are precious, then other people's is not, learn to cherish such feelings, you will find that when others are willing to hold you in the palm of your hand to care, you are the real baby.
Young and beautiful is indeed worthy of our pride, but it does not make you worry-free in your life, the real strength is in the inside, you think that your stars hold the moon, in the end only you are the only one who practices, these external prosperity is always not worthy of the promotion of their own connotation, only enjoy the current prosperity, always can not firmly grasp a happiness, have a beautiful present and future, I hope everyone can do not regret the choice now.