Every family has a difficult scripture to read, and one of the most troublesome pages for parents is that children are not interested in learning. In the face of children's resistance, some parents are anxious, some parents are helpless, and some parents are angry.
What to do if the child is not interested in learningBefore that, maybe we can calm down, listen to the children's voice, and see the world as they see it.
My neighbor's child, the child is a talker, usually very lively, but whenever his mother mentions studying, he lowers his head and looks reluctant. When I saw him that time, I thought about asking him why, and he told me: "Auntie, studying is boring, it's all homework and exams that can't be completed." ”
Yes, have we ever been such children, curious about the unknown, but overwhelmed by the heavy workload of schoolwork?When did learning go from an exploration to a task?I am also a person from the past, we as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, that is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
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So what if the child is not interested in learning?Parents should be first and foremost listeners. It's not about instilling "how important learning is", it's about really understanding their feelings. Perhaps, we can try to make learning more interesting, integrate knowledge into life, and let children learn through play, and play while learning.
I once met a mother who, in order to make her child interested in physics, bought all kinds of small experimental equipment and started experiments with her child. On the weekends, they would make small rockets together and study why they could fly into the sky. In this kind of parent-child interaction, children not only learn knowledge, but also experience the joy of learning.
Of course, there are also some children who may lose interest because of learning difficulties。At this time, parents should be their backing and encourage them to face difficulties instead of running away. We can find a professional teacher for tutoring, or work with the child to develop a feasible learning plan to overcome the difficulties step by step.
Every child is a unique seed that needs different soils, sunlight, and rain to thrive. The same is true for learning, there is no set pattern and method. Only by truly understanding children can we find the key that opens the door to their hearts.
Therefore, what to do when children are not interested in learning, we might as well let go of anxiety and expectation, and listen, understand, and guide with a peaceful heart. Remember, education is not a race, it's a journey。I don't care how far away the destination is, I only care about the scenery along the way and the people who accompany you. Let's join hands to accompany children through this challenging and exploratory learning journey!