"I'm not interested in you!"The woman was divorced for 3 years and wanted to remarry, but her husband shook off her hand
In the song, he once sang: "A man's goodness is only known by the woman beside him." ”
However, in reality, there are many women who are in a difficult situation, they may chase new opportunities for better conditions, and always feel that they may marry the right person, but the future may be better. Sometimes, with good looks and great talent, they may choose to start over with a more handsome, wealthy, and gentle man, as if the original choice was miscalculated.
However, when a breakup or divorce becomes a reality, some women gradually realize that they may be missing out on the "boy in their eyes".
This also verifies the old proverb: "Whoever has no black pot at the bottom", even if women see a perfect, wealthy, and gentle man, they also have their own shortcomings, because no one is perfect.
In Jiangsu, a woman wants to get back together with her ex-husband, so she goes to his ex-husband's home to try to ease the relationship.
However, what the woman did not expect was that her ex-husband had no interest in her now and chose to keep his distance from her.
This scene happened in a home of a resident in Jiangsu. In order to meet her ex-husband, the woman deliberately dressed up carefully, put on a beautiful skirt, put on light makeup, and tried to bring some surprises to her ex-husband.
The woman's purpose is simple, to test whether her ex-husband has any thoughts about remarriage by dressing up more charming.
For the arrival of his ex-wife, the ex-husband did not show the slightest excitement, and still sat on the sofa as usual, casually playing with his mobile phone, chatting with the woman casually.
The woman deliberately approached her ex-husband slowly, trying to close the distance between each other and observe his reaction. However, to the woman's surprise, her ex-husband was so engrossed in his mobile phone that he didn't notice the woman's caution at all.
Faced with her ex-husband's indifference, the woman had to give it a go, trying to gently put her hand on her ex-husband's thigh to show her heart.
However, as if he had received an electric shock, her ex-husband instantly reached out and shook her hand away, refusing any physical contact. What's more, the ex-husband unconsciously moved his body to the side, trying to keep his distance from the woman.
The woman's expectations for her ex-husband were dashed in an instant, and she felt a wave of frustration. Obviously, the husband had no intention of starting their marriage again.
I'm not interested in you!We're single now, don't touch me, don't move your hands and feet. ”
Can't we get back together?The woman asked tentatively.
Ex-husband: "I'm fine now that I'm alone, you can find another person, I'm okay, but let's not remarry." ”
However, the woman was about to say more, but the husband left the living room and went back to the bedroom, closing the door without giving her a chance to explain.
At this moment, the woman felt a great sense of frustration, and the once favored had turned into indifference to her.
My parents-in-law want us to be together again, but he just doesn't want to!”
The reason why the woman is so positive is, on the one hand, because after the divorce, she realized the advantages of her ex-husband.
The ex-husband does not have obvious bad Xi, does not smoke or drink, goes home after work to cook and play with the children. When he's bored, he likes to brush up on some funny **.
However, the woman found that her ex-husband often browsed the ** of some beautiful women dancing, which made her feel that he was a little distracted. Coupled with years of marriage, her ex-husband is not aggressive, has always received a fixed salary, and has not been promoted, which makes her feel that he is a little mediocre.
Her dissatisfaction with her husband led her to mention divorce every time she quarreled, and this emotion gradually intensified. Eventually, after arguing many times, the husband agreed to the divorce.
After the divorce, the woman discovers that men have all kinds of shortcomings. Men with successful careers are basically not at home, and there may be a group of beautiful women around. And the man of the Gu family may not have a very good career, which can only be said to be dull.
The woman began to realize that in fact, her ex-husband was already very good, but she expected too much from him.
On the other hand, the parents-in-law always wanted them to be together again.
They knew that the divorce was just an impulse, and over the years, neither of them had found a more suitable person. So, they thought about bringing the two back together.
However, the son has always disagreed, he feels that his life is good now and does not disturb each other. In desperation, the father-in-law and mother-in-law had to expect the woman to take the initiative, and maybe the son would agree.
Unfortunately, the woman's active attempts ended in failure, and the ex-husband really had no intention of starting over.
It is a pleasure to enjoy the comfort of being single for a while, and to live alone for a short time. Those who have experienced complicated marriages feel that men tend to live more independently. Self-sufficient, free to dispose of your own income, follow your heart's desires, and live so pleasantly.
In contrast, a woman who is too demanding will not be able to meet her expectations even if she tries harder. So why not choose to pursue your own pleasures?
Female friends, sometimes they also have to look at themselves, if they find that they have not yet reached the level of excellence, they have no right to set high expectations of their other half. So why not focus on making yourself happy.