Middle-aged people's experience says, life is like a book when you are 30 years old, and half of what middle-aged people write, only you know the bitterness and sweetness.
After decades of experience, they gradually understand some truths of life, which they only really understand after the age of 30. Let's take a look at nine of them.
First of all, we should not let couples go to funerals. This is not superstition, but is based on a reverence for life and death.
It is believed that husbands and wives have an endless relationship and support for each other, and it is extremely unfortunate if one of them dies prematurely. As a result, people are reluctant to send their spouses, who are not yet old, to the funeral for fear of a troubled future.
Secondly, there is a saying that women born at noon have a good life. Perhaps this is because the sun is at its most intense at noon, representing sunshine, warmth, and hope.
At the same time, women born at noon tend to be also very independent in personality, brave and resilient. Perhaps all of these factors have affected their lives and made it easier for them to achieve good results in their careers and families.
In addition, a man should not carry a coffin if he is not married, even if he has reached the age of 50. This statement may have something to do with the traditional Chinese concept of marriage, which is believed to be a man and a woman who should start a family and have the support of a family to take on the responsibility of carrying the coffin.
Therefore, it may be seen as an unlucky act for a man to carry a coffin while he is unmarried. When naming your child, avoid the word "Tianxian".
Because "Tianxian" is a homonym in Chinese, "Tianxia Wuxian" is used to describe people who cannot find themselves responsible. Therefore, it is best not to include these two words when choosing a child's name, so as not to bring negative connotations and other misfortunes.
When we finish using the toilet, we should also look back for a minute before flushing. It may sound strange, but there is some truth to it.
We all know that water is a very important resource, and it represents wealth and fortune.
So, looking back for a minute before flushing may be a small ritual to show our gratitude and awe for water resources.
We also need to pay attention to the issue of girls being bridesmaids. Some people say that it is best for girls to be bridesmaids no more than three times.
This is not a restriction on women, but rather a consideration of the happiness and opportunities of girls in marriage. When a girl is a bridesmaid, she is often noticed and paid attention to by many people, and if there are too many times, it may give people an impression of instability and immaturity, which will affect their marriage.
One more point, it is better to put only one pillow when sleeping alone. This may be because two pillows represent the presence of two people, and if there is only one person, then two pillows may make people feel empty and lonely, and will also affect the quality and adequacy of sleep.
When we are poor, we should also try to avoid letting people know that we are poor. This is not about cheating, but for the sake of self-esteem and face.
Poverty can be changed, but if people are treated as weakness or a laughing stock, it is difficult to get out of it. Therefore, in times of economic difficulties, we must maintain our inner self-confidence and dignity, and do not easily disclose our predicament.
Finally, when you hear a cat barking at night, never look at it. Some people say that this may be the ** of the spirit of the cat, and if you are too curious, you may encounter accidents and misfortunes.
So, when you hear a cat meowing at night, it's best to sleep peacefully, not too curious and adventurous.