Sister Wang, 70 years old in Hangzhou, is a warm-hearted person who often matches single men and women for free to help them find their other half. Her acts of kindness have been widely praised by the residents of the community.
On January 6, Sister Wang met a pair of young people who broke up, and their stories made her sigh. The boy is 34 years old and the girl is 32 years old, and the two have been in love for more than a year, but they eventually broke up. The boy felt very aggrieved after the breakup, and he told Sister Wang: "My annual salary is 300,000 yuan, but 50% of it is spent on eating and drinking, and I really feel that I can't afford her." ”
According to the boy, when he went out on a date with a girl, he felt that two or three hundred yuan for a meal should be enough, but the girl always chose to go to a high-end restaurant, and it cost six or seven hundred yuan for a meal. Every holiday, the boy will buy the girl a necklace and other gifts, but after the breakup, the girl does not give him anything back.
After hearing this story, Sister Wang couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion. She believes that blind dates require sincerity, responsibility and respect. Although the girl's family is financially well-off, the boy's support is not a unilateral obligation, and both parties should share family responsibilities.
As the end of the year approaches, many people are beginning to pay attention to whether their KPIs have been completed. Sister Wang reminded everyone that blind dates are not only about finding a partner, but also on the basis of sincerity, responsibility and respect. Only on this basis can a long-lasting and happy relationship be established.
Netizens are hotly discussed: Since you know that the girl's family economic conditions are very good, you should understand that the girl's daily consumption is much higher than others. If you fall in love, if you reduce the consumption demand of the other party because of your own consumption, this kind of love is tantamount to reducing her quality of life for her daily high consumption. And the gift given during the relationship itself was given to her, and the girl who broke up had no responsibility and no obligation to return the gift given.
It may be the daily life of the woman, but it is not the daily life of the boy. ”
Laughing to death. If it's really her daily life, why don't you see her pay for a meal?
Even if you ask for a meal, it's fine.
This is using people as ATMs.
That's why we pay attention to the right people, and it doesn't just refer to personality, but all aspects, although it is the normal consumption level of girls, but the man can't afford it.
The difference in the concept of consumption does not mean that it is not the right person, and the salary of the man may not be the right person, but this view of consumption is really not suitable as a suitable marriage partner.