Two days ago, my husband drank too much wine and sent me a message to show his love, strange and numb, I sent an atlas and asked if your husband drank too much and the state was like this, would you still restrict your husband from drinking?
Then someone commented and asked what you think about restricting your husband's drinking?Doesn't that get to the point, then I'm too thoughtful.
I think it's okay to persuade you, it's completely unnecessary to restrict, because you will find that 99% of them can't be restricted, and the husband is a creature who is at least twenty years old and above, and he is an adult and can be responsible for his own behavior. The alcohol that can't be stopped by drinking too much, the alcohol that can't be limited to the responsibility of the family, how can you limit the wife?Quarrels?Or go to the dinner party to make trouble?
I think if he drinks every day and his attitude is not good, he will be left to fend for himself, he is not worthy of our service, with a good attitude, of course, not only after drinking, but also in the relationship in ordinary life, just like me and my husband, if he drinks too much and goes home, I have anti-hangover medicine, honey water, will give him to take off his dirty clothes, because he likes to drink too much and like to fall down on the edge of the bed and knock his head too much, and then every time he drinks too much, I accompany him to lay on the floor, he sleeps on the ground and I sleep on the ground, he falls asleep and I sleep again, on this treatment he is proud every time he talks to his friends, and he almost praises me to the sky。
When my son was at the full moon banquet, I told him to drink less, but he got drunk and went back, he drank too much and liked to scream, which scared my son to cry, I still took care of him until he fell asleep, the next day I was not very happy, but I still tried to ask him how much he drank, he said that he drank two glasses of liquor, he usually had two glasses of liquor, he said that he was happy to toast and drank urgently, he apologized to me and said that it was not intentional, we never quarreled because of his drinking, of course, he himself was quite restrained, he had no fox friends and dog friends, he stayed at home seven or eight days a month, most of them were at home with me, there was a meal between friends but anyone who could take me absolutely with him, Unless it looks really bad at the wine party, I won't keep talking about drinking less and drinking less or something. This kind of behavior is somewhat uninteresting.
My husband drank too much and I only felt distressed, because he drank too much was uncomfortable enough, and he was harsh on what he did, and I can't forget that he drank too much and fell on the side of the road when he was on a business trip, and I said that I was uncomfortable and couldn't find the way back to the hotel, I hated to fly past him when I felt powerless, I just wish him safety, but he must drink some wine. All I could do was take care of him when he drank too much around me.
Not only drinking, but almost everything we discussed, and no one would want to impose their ideas on each other, of course, there are times when there is a real disagreement, then he can only listen to me, otherwise I told him to run away from home with my cat before I have a son, and now I want to run away from home with my son, although I have not been able to implement it once. Before the action, I was definitely coaxed, and he mentioned me in front of all his relatives, friends and colleagues, and it was always my daughter-in-law who was so good ......
I think restricting my husband from drinking is just treating my husband as a son, controlling my desires, and saying that I am for your good, and in the end, I suspect that others are not obedient and do not appreciate it, so why bother?Think about how our parents felt when we were children when they told us that I was good for you, if we were with our husbands, this kind of getting along with us would not improve anything except to cultivate a rebellious husband, wouldn't it?