High School Choice Relationship or Or?Wise decisions need to be made carefully, and the gains outweigh the losses
The high school entrance examination has ended, and the students who have done well in the examination are happily preparing to enter the key high schools with hope. However, students and parents who did not do well in the exam began to struggle. Powerful parents want to make their children enter a better high school and receive a better education through their own efforts. Although parents start with love for their children, not all help is beneficial. Parents should be aware of two things:
First, is the child's academic level adaptable?
Some children study hard and even attend many tutorial classes, but their grades are difficult to improve. Even if such a child enters a key high school, it is difficult to adapt, and his grades are still not satisfactory and he lacks self-confidence. There is also a type of learning attitude problem, which is addicted to entertainment in junior high school, and it is difficult to change even if you are in a strong learning atmosphere. Such children may have difficulty fitting in in a new environment.
Second, are values distorted?
Forcibly enrolling a child in a key high school, making him feel that he can get what he wants without working hard, such parental behavior may lead to distorted values in the child. Children may think that they can easily get help without working hard, and they may lose their motivation for the future.
Therefore, I think it is most appropriate for children to choose the right school according to their actual level. Only by being down-to-earth and taking one step at a time can we move towards the future more steadily. A child's life should be shaped by their own efforts, not by their parents who are always paving the way for them. We should let our children understand that what they get must be worked for. Teach people to fish, not fish, and parents should not lose more than they gain.