In the society of the future, there may be more and more girls who cannot get married. This is not alarmism.
First of all, the choice of marriage is a two-way street. Both boys and girls have their own standards and requirements. The boy pursues virtue and gentleness, and treats feelings professionally.
1. A girl who can live. The girl, on the other hand, wants to find a boy who has a house, a car and a deposit.
However, the reality is that many boys are not growing up fast enough to keep up with girls, which leads to some girls not being able to find a boy who meets their requirements.
At the same time, my marriage is an equal choice. Everyone has the right to choose, but the premise of the choice is that both parties have sufficient capital and conditions.
When we're not good enough, it's hard for us to find a particularly good partner.
Therefore, girls should not feel that their youth is capital, and they can pick and choose. We must recognize our own conditions and requirements, and do not blindly pursue the so-called perfect partner.
In addition, we must also see the problem of older leftover women in first-tier cities. These girls are often low-eyed, and always dream of grafting their life happiness onto a boy.
However, they ignore that the essence of marriage is to support each other and grow together. If we always rely on each other to meet our material needs, it will be difficult for such a marriage to last.
Therefore, we would like to advise those girls who are not yet married not to feel that their youth is capital and they can pick and choose.
We must recognize the reality and choose the happiness that suits us. When we are good enough, we will naturally attract more good boys.
At the same time, we must also learn to cherish the people around us and not always pursue the so-called perfect partner.
Finally, we need to understand that the choice of marriage is a two-way street. Both boys and girls have their own standards and requirements.
However, when we choose a partner, we also need to take into account the feelings and needs of the other person. Only when we truly know how to respect and understand each other can we build a truly happy marriage.