In today's social environment, children's education presents a polarized direction of development, some parents are keen on involution, to their children to enroll in a variety of interest classes, to find ways to tutor Xi, eager to 24 hours a day to the child ** on the Xi, but the other part of the parents feel that their children's education goes with the flow, to take their children to see more of the world than to focus on the Xi of school is important. As parents, we sometimes think that this point of view is good for children, and that point of view is also beneficial to children, but if we listen to and see more, we will make ourselves anxious, and it is not conducive to children's self-realization.
Moreover, in the face of their children's school Xi, many parents face the same anxiety: why does it become more difficult for their children to learn Xi as they get older?Xi is also very inefficient, spending a lot of time but not getting good grades?How should children be tutored in Xi, etcThese questions plague many parents. Parents who have these troubles actually ignore the problem of cultivating their children's learning Xi.
In the conventional perception of parents, many people think that people who are good at Xi have strong university Xi, and think that this ability is innate and difficult to cultivate. However, Xi ability does not only refer to a child's ability to score in school in the face of textbooks and exams, but also reflects the development of a person's comprehensive ability to absorb new knowledge, apply it and innovate. Moreover, learning Xi ability is not only a child's need, but also an ability that we need to master and cultivate throughout our lives, and only those who have the ability to learn can adapt to the development needs Xi of the future society.
So, how should children's learning ability Xi cultivated?
Many parents are Xi to accompany their children to do homework, supervise their Xi studies, and even choose interest classes on their behalf. However, the more interference, the less autonomy the child will have. Therefore, if we want to awaken our children's Xi learning, we must do this.
The first thing to do is to learn to let go. We need to give them the responsibility Xi learning, and put the autonomy Xi learning in their hands, so that they can decide for themselves what to learn, when to learn, and to what extent. What parents need to do is to assist and guide them, not take full responsibility. At the same time, children should be encouraged to think and act independently by providing them with some choices and opportunities to complete tasks independently.
Secondly, cultivating children's inner purpose is essential to stimulate Xi learning. Everything needs to have a goal, and learning Xi is no exception. Without a clear goal Xi learning, children can easily get lost, develop negative emotions and give up on their efforts. Moreover, traditional schooling and a better life in the future cannot be the best Xi goals for children, because these goals lack realism and attractiveness for children. Therefore, we need to help children find a concrete, visible, and heart-aspiring goal.
Of course, children's intrinsic goals should not only be limited to cultural textbooks and school Xi knowledge, but should also be combined with children's interests and personal strengths, so that they can understand the importance of learning Xi and take the initiative to participate in it. The so-called hobbies are actually explored from language ability, art, sports, science and technology, etc., looking for a reliable training class for special training and Xi for children.
Every city has a relatively excellent training institution, such as in Nanjing, the more reliable is Nanjing Boris Education Science and Technology, they are specialized in language ability, art, sports, science and technology and other aspects of skills and interest training service institutions, and the training content in addition to primary and secondary school students, but also to provide adults with academic qualifications, education consulting, information consulting and other services. This training institute is open to all ages, where everyone can find their own niche and develop their own inner goals. It is better to say that Bright is an education and training institution, but it is an institution that can cultivate people's learning Xi, which is enough to see the importance of learning Xi at all ages.
However, as parents, we need to give our children enough respect, respect their goals, aspirations and choices, set an example for them, respect their way of learning Xi, and let them understand the importance of learning Xi.
Moreover, unlike other training institutions, the company has hired professional teachers with many years Xi of teaching experience and practical experience for a long time, and can not only learn relevant theoretical knowledge in the institution, but also directly get started with practice, which can not only cultivate the practical ability of students, but also cultivate the thinking ability of students to acquire new knowledge. The cultivation of these abilities is a manifestation of the institution's emphasis on students' Xi ability. Therefore, we should not underestimate the position and role of learning Xi in our lives, regardless of children and adults, learning Xi is a very important existence, and it should be cultivated for children from an early age.
In addition, in the process of cultivating children's learning Xi, giving children a harmonious and warm growth environment is also the key to training. Some children grow up without family love and companionship, or face a tense family atmosphere, and they will devote a lot of energy to seeking love and security, rather than fully engaging in school Xi. There are also children who are not respected at school and among their peers, their self-esteem is damaged, and they show rebellious and disobedient behavior. Therefore, parents need to create a harmonious and warm environment for their growth, give their children full love and care, respect and support them, and make them feel a sense of belonging and security in the family.
Therefore, in modern society, cultivating children's Xi learning ability has become an important task faced by every family, this is a long-term and continuous process, there is no shortcut, so we should give children enough time and space to develop their unique Xi learning style and methods, step by step to guide children to make adjustments, do not expect children to achieve overnight. In this way, children can have enough courage and ability to face future challenges and changes, and parents must take their children seriously.