Start planning for my 2024 "2023 is going hard" - probably how many people feel. I have talked to many people about 2023 and imagined 2024 together, and most people think that 2024 will not be better than 2023. But in the face of time, we have no choice, and we still have to enter 2024 after all. In 2023, it has been heard many times that "you never know which will come first, tomorrow or the unexpected". "Accidents" are uncontrollable, but if there is still "tomorrow", even if 2024 is not optimistic, it seems that it can also be regarded as a luxury gift for us.
In 2023, I have experienced a lot of things, met a lot of people, seen a lot of different lives, and realized some truths.
Let's start with a lesson on money.
I used to think that to do what I wanted to do, I had to have enough money, energy, and enthusiasm. The experience in 2023 has made me realize that even people worth tens of millions or hundreds of billions will still be short of money. Based on my perception of work, it seems that it is difficult to save enough money by going to work, but the energy and enthusiasm will slowly weaken due to age until it disappears, until I become a person who has neither money, nor the energy and enthusiasm to do what I want to do.
Instead of lamenting that "bad luck" and "fate is not fulfilling people's wishes", you might as well think about what your "current self" can do for the future you want.
Let's talk about the "present and future".
In the movie "Strange Ability" (2009), you can see the future Casey, who goes from superstitious prophecy to deciding to change the prophecy, completing her own growth and reversing the tragic ending of everyone.
Regarding "Changing the Future", there is a similar scene in the comic "Robot Cat (Doraemon)". In the future, Nobi saw that he missed his marriage to Shizuka because he didn't study hard and learn to do housework when he was young, so he changed his past and not only started to do homework, but also actively helped his mother with housework.
From a fatalistic point of view, it seems that we can't get around some of the processes and endings that should be, but that doesn't mean that we are not capable of giving new meaning to those images now. In "Strange Ability", Casey sees a girl falling in front of a box with an image of a tiger on it, so he arranges for her companions to help her in advance, making her opponent the fallen one, and avoiding "the end of her death". The picture that Casey had predicted is still valid, but the story has completely changed.
A powerful quote to hear in 2023 is".The choices you make now will determine your life in 3 years”。This sentence gave me a lot of inspiration and also made me see that if I don't do something, at least 3 years from now my life will be predictably unideal. Instead of waiting pessimistically, think about what your current self can do for yourself at that time.
Finally, let's talk about the meaning of "gift".
In 2023, I have experienced a lot of people and things that make me feel "dangerous", and the so-called "dangerous" refers to things that I have not experienced before, but many people think of them as just "troubles and headaches". Those people and things ......Just let them stay in 2023, I've already learned a lot from it.
Many plans for 2023 are not completed. I didn't complete the "100 uncertain live broadcasts" plan, nor did I complete the plan to earn enough money to listen to Zeng Qifeng's offline classes, to systematically study Erickson hypnosis, and I didn't complete the plan of writing and *** updates, but it didn't prevent me from continuing to make my own 2024 plan.
I hope that in 2024, I will continue to work hard in the direction of "influencing 10 million people to see my power", and I also hope that I can continue to maintain good intentions to remember the people I will know in 2023 and face the people I will know in 2024May all encounters be the gift of each other's lives
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