In the course of a person's life, we should devote more love and attention to our loved ones. After all, our capabilities are limited, and we can't take care of all of them at the same time. Therefore, the treatment of spouses has become our primary consideration. The spouse is with uslifeThe person who accompanies us day and night is the most important partner in our lives. Unfortunately, some people don't realize this when they are young, treat their spouse inappropriately, and owe each other a debt that leads to resentment in the other person. And when we run for five, this karma will be especially obvious.
I once carefully observed the relatives at homeMarriagesituation, find that those families who are kind to their spouses are always full of happiness and harmony. And those who treat spousesCold violence, or verbal insults, and not very well. Especially when they enter old age and are in poor health, the spouse will return these bitter fruits. This is really a classic cause and effect relationship. In a person's life, there are not many people who can be related to us. If we are lucky enough to meet them, we should cherish them. Otherwise, our old age will be filled with regret and remorse.
Throughout our lives, our loved ones are uslifeThe people closest to us are often the ones we confide in about our happiness and pain. Because we can't take care of everyone at the same time, loved ones are especially important. However, some people do not realize this when they are young, treat their spouse inappropriately, or even hurt the other person. They may ignore their spouse's needs, be indifferent or even abusive, and such behavior is bound to have consequences.
I remember one time with a relative's in my familyMarriageThe reason for the problem is that the husband treated his wife badly when he was young and snubbed her feelings. After the age of fifty, his body began to weaken and he needed to be cared for by his wife, who began to treat him coldly, and even sometimes even treated himCold violence。Such retribution is undoubtedly evidence of cause and effect. There are not many people who can have a relationship with us in a person's life, if we find such people, please cherish them. Because in our old age, having a good family brings us great happiness and comfort.
When a person reaches the age of fifty, he often feelslifeIt becomes boring and boring, so they start looking for excitement, and some even look for extramarital affairs. Take advantage of outdoor travel and other activities to connect with the opposite sex, like an oil thiefRats, full of excitement and joy. However, is it really necessary to do so?There are many things in life that can bring happiness, and you don't have to put all your energy into that. Such behavior is often unsettling, and can even hurt one's spouse and children, and even bring crisis to other people's families.
I've had people around me who have been in this situation. He had a happy family, and his wife and children loved him, but he was not satisfied. He gave up his family and chose to associate with women from the outside world. These women may be able to give him sweet words, or they may have extraordinary appearances, but in the end, the East Window Incident broke out, and his wife and children left him. Now that he is old and lonely, and his lover has left him, he no longer has a chance to make up for his past mistakes. No matter what age you are, you can fall intoEmotionin the whirlpool. But adults should understand that love is nothing more than a momentary impulse that will soon fade and get tired of it. Hurting one's family and oneself for such a short-term happiness is really worth the loss.
When a man reaches the age of fiftylifeThe feeling of boredom in can make some people start looking for excitement and freshness. Some people are looking for a connection with the opposite sex when they travel outdoors, and this stimulation makes them feel happy. However, is it necessary for us to seek happiness in this way?There are many other things in life that can bring happiness, and we don't need to pin all our hopes on this one. This kind of behavior can often be unsettling, hurt our partners and children, and even pose a threat to other people's families.
I've seen a man fall into this predicament. He had a happy family, and his wife and children were full of love for him, however, he was not satisfied. He abandoned his family and looked for women from the outside world as sustenance. These women may be able to give him sweet words, or they may have charming looks, but in the end everything is shattered. His wife and children have left him, and now he is old and lonely, and his lover is drifting away. With such a result, it was too late for him to regret it. We have a lot of things in our lives, no matter what age we are. But we as adults should understand that love is just a passing impulse that will soon disappear and get tired of it. The price of hurting the people around us and ourselves for the sake of momentary happiness is too high.
When people are over 50 years old, the children have grown up and begun to step inSocial。If a child is inEducationIf it is not well cultivated, at this point, the damage to the family will be very great. After all, these children are no longer children, but already young people. Therefore, this stage is a one-person selfEducationThe stage of testing the results. Well, oursEducationFailed, or succeeded?That's when the truth will be revealed.
I remember there was a post about oneFatherExtremely irritable story. He often beats and scolds children at every turn, causing them physical and mental harm. However, as the kids grew up and became stronger, they started hitting backhands backFather, making him miserable. But so what?That's nothing more than thatFatherDo you plant your own fruit?There are not many important things in a person's life, but getting married and having children is undoubtedly a very important part of it. Therefore, please be kind to your family and don't be harsh on them. When we reach our old age, it is a great blessing to be able to have a good family by our side.
When a person is over 50 years old, the children also grow up and begin to integrateSocial。If a child is growing up without getting the right oneEducation, then at this age, he will be very destructive to the family. After all, these children are no longer young children, they are now young people in their twenties and thirties. So now it's time for us to evaluate ourselvesEducationIt's time for results. OursEducationWas it a success or a failure?Now there will be a clear answer.
I remember seeing a post before about oneFatherStories of short tempers and often doing things to children. However, when the children grew up and became physically strong, they began to fight back with a backhand, letFatherThe pain is unbearable. But what's the point?That's nothing more than thatFatherDo you plant your own fruit?There are not many important things in a person's life. And chooseMarriageHaving children is undoubtedly a very important part of this. Therefore, please treat our families well and not be harsh on them. When we reach the end of our lives, it is a great blessing to have a good family by our side.
All in all, in the journey of our lives, we should behave and do things with no shame. Even though some people may gain more benefits by taking shortcuts and playing tricks, the result of hurting others is always bad. When these causes and effects accumulate to a certain extent, they often invite retaliation from others. Therefore, when we reach a certain age, we should pay more attention to our family, care more about our spouses, and do not treat them harshly or neglect. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own behavior, and do not easily step into extramarital affairs and seek short-term stimulation, so as not to hurt our own family and other people's families. The most important thing is that we go with our heartsEducationchildren, cultivate their good character and values so that they can become the right ones in adulthoodSocialBeneficial people. Only in this way can we live a happy and harmonious old age in our old agelife