The year 2024 has begun, and at the beginning of the new year, I no longer hope for what the outside will bring to me, but only hope that in 2024, I can live like this.
No internal friction, no anxiety. We've been through so much in the past few years. Although they have become stories or accidents, they are enough to remind us as we move forward how important it is to maintain a calm and peaceful heart, a sense of composure and calmness, no matter what the situation encounters. What should come will come eventually, and what should go must go. There are many things in this world that I can't do anything about, and there are many heights that I can't reach.
The wind of the world is firm, and those who go along with it prosper and those who go against it die. I'm just an ordinary person, living in a down-to-earth way, taking care of myself and my family, and doing something meaningful within my ability, that's enough. "In the great waves, I don't like or fear. Everything that should be done must be done, and there is no need to worry about it". A person's life, except for life and death, is a trivial matter. Don't look left and right, don't look forward and backward, don't fantasize about your erratic future, don't recover what you have lost;Grasp the present, base yourself on the present, return to sobriety and act in truth, so as to reduce inner turmoil. Being in the downtown is like a monk, sitting and watching the Yangtze River boat.
No complaints, no chicken soup. Born as a human being, it brings its own calamity, and life is unsatisfactory. If you want to be enough, when do you think it is enough?”。Instead of mourning for the rest of your life, it is better to accept it calmly and be at peace with what happens. More simple and natural indifference, less selfish complaints. With a small mood, everyone will complain and complain, Xianglin's sister-in-law is boring, and she can't get cheap sympathy from others, so she can only get bored and become a joke. If you don't say anything, you're a happy person.
Self-crossing without crossing people. I don't expect useless comfort, and I don't want to be overwhelmed by the big and inappropriate chicken soup. You say yours, I live mine. Other people's experiences, perceptions, and philosophies may be helpful to me, or they may just be an old pair of pants, which may not be suitable for you or me. Nor do they impose their brooms on others, point fingers at others, and act as the director of the Cultural Affairs Bureau in front of blind musicians.
Don't compare, don't blindly follow. I am who I am, ordinary and unique in this world. Life is short, and no one can be sure which will come earlier tomorrow or the accident, and how can there be time and leisure to envy the mandarin duck and envy the fairy. Huan Feiyan is thin, Lin Huiyin is a beauty in **, and she is a sick woman when she gets Datang;The wooden raft on the water is a landscape in the eyes of poets, and garbage in the eyes of high-speed rail aviation.
None of us is just grass, we all have the flowers of our own lives;None of us is just a flower, we are all a kind of grass of life. Longing for Datong, you must also be detached, you must be sober and not blindly follow, you must have your own unique opinions and judgments, and you can't become the master who shouts at the entrance of the village.
No showmanship, no blame. The red dust is hustle and bustle, and the bitterness is self-explanatory. The pluralism of thought and ethics will inevitably lead to the pluralism of ideals and values. It should be "the water of the waves is clear, and you can wet me;."The water of the waves is turbid, and you can wet my feet". And its light is the same as its dust, the outside is not vulgar, and the inside is not bad enough to cherish itself. In the past, I admired Mr. Chen Yinke, who once proudly said: "I have never paid for my life, and I have learned from the world." Now that I think about it, it can only be an ideal for those of us who are not virtuous enough to serve and not enough to make meritorious contributions.
You know, maverick or even showmanship, momentary self-sustaining or impulsiveness may bring unprecedented life experience, but often the cost is also shadowy. This world is still ordinary, seeing through, letting go, being at ease, not making strange remarks, not expounding fallacies, not searching for strange treasures, not chasing the smell of fish, is a kind of security need, a kind of calm and serious, but also a kind of wisdom of life.
Don't get together, don't indulge. Further learn to adapt to loneliness and loneliness, cultivate your inner ability in loneliness, enrich your life experience, increase the breadth and depth of cognition, and better face the complex world. Meaningless social interactions and drinking fights not only waste time and life, but also make oneself more and more distant from one's own heart, which is not conducive to physical and mental health.
Low-level carnivals can only paralyze people's feelings, confuse the tastes of the world, bitter becomes sweet, sweet becomes bitter, and they are swept up in filth, and life will become a whirlwind. What's more, the body is one's own, and a good body is an important guarantee for a happy life and a good quality of life in the future.
Don't abandon and don't give up. A tree has a large and small annual ring, and a wide and narrow cross-section, but it always grows silently. 2024 is not necessarily a year of abundant life, start from a small place, get carried away when you are proud, and not be compassionate when you are frustrated. "If you want to do it, you will fix it;He who wants to be weak will be strong;If you want to abolish it, you will consolidate it", which is the law of the development of all things. When there is more despair, there is hope. If you don't believe it, look at the infinite mountains and rivers, the Tang Dynasty, the Song Dynasty, the Yuan, Ming and Qing Dynasties, even after 3,000 years, it is still vast.
As ordinary people, we must always have hope for ourselves, life, and the future, not lie flat or decadent, and strive to control our lives in the waves of emptiness or silence.
Mr. Lu Xun said that hope does not matter whether it is there or not. I hope ......
In the article** from Visual China).