Do you still remember the old man who was hospitalized for pancreatic cancer last month and was declared by the doctor to be unlikely and unwilling to go home?What happened to him, as well as his son's helplessness, made many low-level people feel helpless, if this happened to him, what choice should he make?
On the evening of December 16, the old man's son "Liu Xiaoer" officially announced the bad news that his father Liu Jiliang died at the age of 70 due to the deterioration of his condition.
As Liu Xiaoer said, his father, like most old rural fathers, was industrious and thrifty all his life, honest and trustworthy, and worked hard to raise his children. Judging from the signature of the obituary (a son and a daughter), it is not difficult to see that Liu Xiaoer, the son, did perform very well. Some people think that he is not filial, but this view is only based on a one-sided understanding of outsiders. In fact, everyone has a different way of dealing with such a thing, which does not prove that they are not filial to their parents.
In addition, Liu Xiaoer also mentioned in his obituary when his father was diagnosed with cancer. Although it is only five months, these five months are full of emotion. In Liu Jiliang's body, we have witnessed the impermanence of life, joys and sorrows, endless bitterness and changes in various attitudes. These five months are undoubtedly an indelible memory for Liu Jiliang and his family.
Looking at Liu Xiaoer's ** account, it is not difficult to find that he is also an ordinary person, who speaks straight and has no emotional intelligence, but that kind of unspoken love is hidden deep in his heart. He would buy his father's favorite "brine tofu brain" in the city, and he would also bluntly advise his father that he must have surgery. In the face of his son's sincerity, Liu Jiliang disagreed because he lacked the necessary medical knowledge: If there is a tumor, the body is great.
As the condition worsened, the stubbornness in Liu Jiliang's eyes gradually disappeared, and was replaced by a constantly trembling body and food that was difficult to swallow, and even the symptoms of ** appeared. Faced with these harsh realities, the old farmer finally came to terms with the fact that he was suffering from cancer. They once regretted it, because the puncture** kept the already weak old father with a high fever;But at the same time, they also feel lucky, because Liu Xiaoer's life has attracted widespread attention to the old father, and many caring people have reached out to help and sent them donations. However, despite the efforts of everyone, this simple rural old man was unable to overcome the disease in the end.
At the last moment of his life, Liu Xiaoer decided to send his father to the county hospital. He understands that his father is about to die, and staying in the county hospital can not only save medical expenses, but also make it more convenient to deal with the aftermath. Seeing the money earned by his son pass away like flowing water, the stubborn old father also made a compromise and handed over his money to his son, worried that his money would not be enough to spend. The father's love at that moment was like a river bursting its embankment, which made Liu Xiaoer's heart excited.
In my opinion, Liu Jiliang finally agreed to hand over his money to his son, mainly for the following reasons:
1.Father's love for his son: Liu Jiliang knows that his time is short, and he is worried that his son will face financial difficulties after his death. Giving the money to his son is not only to help his son share the financial pressure, but also to show love and care for his son.
2.Trust his son's ability: Liu Jiliang saw that his son was running around for his ** and trying to save medical expenses, which made him believe that his son could properly handle his own affairs and would not abuse the money.
3.The helplessness of accepting reality: As his condition deteriorated, Liu Jiliang gradually accepted the fact that he was about to die. In this case, he chose to give his money to his son to ease the burden on his family and allow them to better face their future lives.
4.Ease the burden on his family: Liu Jiliang knows that cancer costs a lot of money, and if he does not give the money to his son, the family may fall into financial difficulties because of paying for medical expenses. Therefore, he chose to give his money to his son to ease the financial burden on his family.
Although there is still a trace of stubbornness in the last posthumous photo, if there is no stubbornness, how can he raise a pair of children?
In fact, there are many more cases like Liu Jiliang, but their stories have not been widely disseminated, but this is just as helpless and sad. In fact, life and death seem to be important, but in fact they are nothing more than a part of life, but throughout the ages, how many people can really see through life and death?
Liu Jiliang's death is undoubtedly a tragedy, but his tenacity in the face of adversity and his son's filial piety let us see the brilliance of humanity. This story prompts us to think about the fragility and preciousness of life, and also shows the love and help of family and society for the disadvantaged. May every life be treated gently, and may every family be happy.
In the story of Liu Jiliang and Liu Xiaoer, we witness the interweaving of tenacity, helplessness, love and social strength. These elements will always inspire us to persevere and never give up in the face of life's challenges. Because every moment of life is worth cherishing, and the warmth of family affection is always around us.
This is a story of life, family affection and tenacity, as well as a story of deep affection between father and son. It will remain in our memories forever, reminding us to care for those around us and cherish every moment, because the beauty of life comes from love and tenacity.