Every child is very competitive, so as a parent, the school teacher can start from this point to help the child make a change!
Reward principle. Online games can reward children for even the slightest progress through upgrades and items. In real life, even the worst performing students may make a little progress, so why can't we affirm them in time to meet their self-esteem needs and achievement needs?These small, insignificant improvements will gradually accumulate and gradually become habits and good behavior patterns.
Entertainment Principles. Online games are designed for entertainment throughout. In real life, why can't children's learning process be full of joy?Why can't we redesign the content and teaching methods to make the process of learning fun and suspenseful?Why can't we set up a variety of interest groups in schools so that all children's curiosity can be satisfied and their potential can be realized?Why can't we give children some initiative, some choice, and more development in their own areas of interest?Why can't we break the single score standard and "reduce talents without sticking to one pattern"?By doing so, we can empower all children to feel confident, fulfilled and fully meet their social needs.
The principle of equality. Online communication is equal and free, which is the most attractive part of online chatting. Parents and teachers should strengthen communication with their children, this communication must be equal, not simple preaching, and should look at the real world from the child's eyes, as a person who has passed by, tell the difficulties, troubles and joys of adolescence.
Through the above three principles, we go deep into the hearts of children to understand their problems, so as to better prescribe the right medicine!