1. Don't ignore your responsibilities and obligations because of the other party's love, and have your own sense of responsibility.
2. Don't ignore long-term happiness because of temporary happiness, but have a long-term vision.
3. Don't dwell on the other party's past, learn to let go of the past and cherish the present.
4. Don't give up your own pursuits and dreams because of the other party's family background, and have your own independent thinking ability.
5. Don't choose to be together because of the other party's economic conditions, and have your own financial independence.
6. Don't change yourself because of the other party's character, you must have your own principles and bottom line.
7. Don't give up your goals and ideals because of temporary difficulties, and have persistence and courage.
8. Don't ignore your friends and family because you're in love, and have your own social circle and living space.
9. Don't give up your interests and hobbies because of the other party's career, and have your own life circle.
10. Don't fall in love because of a momentary impulse, but pass the test of time and understand.
11. Don't decide whether you like each other because of their appearance, because the inside of a person is more important.
12. Don't feel inferior and helpless because of the other party's ignorance, learn to comfort and support yourself.
13. A girl's independent personality is always a medicine to maintain charm, and the independence I understand is a moderate stop in love - dare to rely on and be independent.
14. Don't completely deny the other party because of the other party's shortcomings, and have a comprehensive understanding.
15. Talking about love, sending flowers, and promising these things seem to love you very much, but in fact, these things are not difficult at all, as long as he wants to coax you under the pretext of love, he can do it.
16. Don't feel lost because of the other person's ignorance, and have your own life and happiness.
17. Don't choose to be together because of the other party's fame and fortune, otherwise you will make yourself humble.
18. Don't easily pin your happiness on others, otherwise you will be disappointed.
19. Don't feel helpless because of the other party's indifference, and have your own support and comfort.
20. Don't give up because of a rejection, sometimes you need to hold on a little longer.
21. There are a lot of people chasing you, and there is nothing to show off. First, it will scare away boys who like you, and secondly, it may not be that you are too good, but that you look really easy to chase.
22. Don't lose yourself because of the other party's sweet words, and have your own judgment.
23. Don't have an inferiority complex because of the other person's appearance, but have self-confidence and self-love.
24. Don't trust everything because of the other party's deception, learn to trust and be tolerant.
25. Three views in the relationship: family view, values, and ** view. If the three views do not match, no matter how good the other conditions are, they are all persuasion.
26. Don't give up your dreams and pursuits because of the other party's family, and have your own values.
27. Love him to be expressed, not necessarily to say it, but to make him feel it. Surprise him and cook him a meal are all ways to show love.
28. Don't feel pain because the other party doesn't understand, learn to communicate and understand.
29. Material is not the most important factor in a relationship, but at least it is within the top three and top five.
30. A boy who can reason with you is more worthy of cherishing than a boy who can only coax you. The former hopes to work with you hand in hand to create a better future;The latter may be afraid that you will be angry, or maybe they only care about a good night and trap you in a utopia of sweet lies.
31. Don't ignore your own growth and development because of momentary happiness, and have all-round development and progress.
32. Be cautious from the beginning to the end, and gather and disperse. After all, it's too ugly to redeem it.
33. Don't give up because of a failure, otherwise you will miss a lot of beautiful opportunities.
34. Don't blindly believe because of the other party's momentary commitment, learn to think and judge independently.
35. Don't fall in love because you're lonely, otherwise you'll hurt yourself.
36. Don't ignore your shortcomings because of the pursuit of perfection, otherwise you will make yourself unconfident.
37. Don't ignore the other person's feelings because of the pursuit of romance, otherwise you will lose your balance.
38. Believing in incompetence is more terrible than sexual impotence, believing in incompetence is a negative feedback of unconfidence, and living in doubt is either you die or he dies. Remember: trust is the trick to maintaining feelings, and suspicion is a shortcut to destroying feelings.
39. Don't believe everything because of the other party's promises, and have your own judgment.
40. Cultivate your common hobbies, but don't lose your hobbies for him.