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For men, being attracted by the eyes and being attracted by the heart are completely different.
So what are the factors that make women attracted to men, and then develop love for men?
In fact, it is these three qualities of men that contribute to the occurrence of intimacy and make women attracted to them.
Here's what I've summarized for you after reading D**id Myers' Social Psychology.
Many psychological studies have shown that appearance is indeed important and that there are many benefits that come with it.
If a man can control his diet, strengthen exercise, and have a clean and handsome **, it is difficult not to let a woman "like it physiologically".
Because a woman also has senses, she also seeks visual pleasures. Being with a handsome man makes a woman happy.
The fact that the vast majority of cosmetic surgery patients are women, not men, is a testament to the fact that women also care about men's appearance when dating.
Just like many people, because a book has a weird or good-looking cover, it increases the desire to read. If a man wants to be favored by a woman in a short period of time, he must understand this sentence:
Most people are heavy on clothes and people, and heavy on skin and soul.
Zhang Defen, a writer of the spiritual growth genre, wrote in "We Will Meet Love and Loneliness":
Biologists have done research that the courtship criteria for males and females are indeed based on some basic "survival mode" needs.
This dates back to primitive times, when women needed tall men to ensure their chances of survival, and men chose women who seemed fertile enough to reproduce for them.
So in today's era, we can see that many young and beautiful women are willing to be "eaten by old cows". This is because, for the rich and powerful, they can still find beautiful women as wives.
Men believe that as long as they make money, drive multimillion-dollar cars, wear Louis Vuitton or other luxury brands. Even if you look average, even if you are much older than women, you can easily attract the attention of most women.
Psychologists believe that people have a tendency to be selfish, that is, self-centered, so we like things related to ourselves, including not only the letters in our names, but also the people, places, and other things that are subconsciously related to us.
As a result, a woman is more likely to fall in love with someone of the opposite sex who has similar views and interests.
For example, in many romantic literary films, women who see men reading the same book or the same movie as themselves will feel that men are "to their tastes."
In a deeper relationship, the more consistency a man shows, the more confident a woman is in finding a suitable soulmate.
So, if you want to pursue a girl you like, a man might as well go to his heart first to understand what kind of person the other person is
Then leave your own goodness behind and disguise yourself as a "kind", then the woman will be like a creature in the animal kingdom, feel that you are not dangerous and let down her guard, let you close, and finally develop into a romantic relationship.