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Psychologists believe that everyone has a different definition and acceptance of betrayal.
Some men were found by their wives and chatted ambiguously with the opposite sex, and they still held on: just chatting, how can it be considered betrayal?
But in fact, to make the original partner feel uncomfortable and to destroy the trust between the couple is infidelity.
A woman who wants to know if the person next to her is ambiguous and addicted, and often chats with other women outside, you can see whether he has the following three manifestations.
If so, women should know how to stop losses in time and communicate in a timely manner.
A female friend once joked about a man who had been in a relationship for three years: "Maybe it's the bottleneck of the relationship, he no longer has the original love and appreciation for me, but has transferred to other women." "Once, I picked up his phone and saw that he had changed our **woman in white**. He also often messages other girls on dating apps. ”
Psychologists believe that if people feel happy on their own lawn, they won't look at someone else's lawn.
Greedy men, when they feel that the women around them can no longer bring them novelty and the pleasure of conquering them, will look for "new prey".
Women find that men are always walking on the road, with the corners of their eyes ** other women;Or often add some strange women's WeChat;and even to your face, saying, "Thou art inferior to thy brother's wife;It is necessary to always pay attention: the man around you is not loyal enough to your feelings and there is a possibility of betrayal.
In the third season of the marriage variety show "Goodbye Love", Wang Mengru publicly expressed her dissatisfaction with the person who got the marriage certificate:
He asked me, do you want flowers?I refused, and then it was gone. I haven't received a bouquet of flowers in 10 years, and one of his female friends gave flowers to someone else on his birthday, so why don't you send me flowers?”
The other guests of the show felt that men didn't do such things, and persuaded Xiao Wang to wake up early, stop losses in time, and leave this man who was so careless about himself.
American writer Dale Carnegie has long suggested that couples should prepare romance and surprises for each other, no matter how long they have been together.
But for those men who have an ambiguous fetish, pleasing the women around them is not the focus and purpose of their lives. Having as many spare tires as possible, or being favored by other women, will make them feel attractive.
Most women who find out that their boyfriends or husbands are often chatting with the opposite sex can find evidence from their phones.
Many women will be particularly sad when they see those "tiger words" when men are sleeping, or inadvertently.
Because Shen Yifei, an associate professor at Fudan University, said: Love is exclusive.
Therefore, when men and other women are ambiguous, they do not put themselves in the shoes of other women and experience the pain of betrayal.
They will feel that there is nothing wrong with doing so.
When meeting men who have no sense of boundaries with other members of the opposite sex, women should know how to end their intimate relationship with them, otherwise the troubles in the future are endless.